When there's a couple making out and making copious PDA's on my bar I like to spray them with the soda gun.

Pretty much. I have several of these people posting shit like that every day. Thankfully, the unsubscribe button is there.

I hate it when people want to talk after exams. They ask tings like, "What did you get for number 3 and number 4?" "Did you answer the double sided sheet?" They also pull out their book and start looking up the answers like they can change them now. I prefer to just chill and take it easy, lucky my friends now know that and we all do the same.

WGMG: This depression is slowly getting to me and i really have no passion for much anymore. Pretty much annoyed when people tell me things and feel like i just want to get out of here.

Early onset of Old Man Syndrome. At this rate, in just a few months you'll turn into MvFCArsenal16.8

Hahah, my cousins keeps telling me im becoming an old man. If by MvFC you mean have a wife and kid, i wouldnt mind.

You've got the rest of your life for that kind of stuff, man. Take the opportunity to enjoy yourself in other areas while you can.

I dont buy this whole, 'enjoy life before you married'. I know that once you get married there are some things you cant do or you will say things like, i wish i had done this before i got married, but quite frankly, i think im beyond that already. Im at a stage where i need to be moving forward and maturing.

Just because you're 'moving forward and maturing' doesn't mean that you have to be in a serious relationship and talking about kids, etc. Nor does it mean that you can't enjoy certain elements of your youth as well.

Also, a steady relationship/marriage isn't necessarily a measure of maturity. Look at notorganic or mus.

I know, im not saying i want to get married and have a kid right now or tomorrow, im just saying that i dont believe in taking your time to enjoy life before comitting. Nothing wrong with having a relationship and doing all the fun stuff too.

I think a lot of the way i think is also down to cultural pressures and ways of doing things.

Being in a relationship kind of scuppers seeing how many girls you can sleep with in a week :lol:

Having kids tends to put an end to partying etc as well.

Pick one thing that you've always wanted/wanted to do, something that would be a real achievement for you, and just focus on that. It helps if it's not something dependent on others (such as getting a girlfriend), but rather something you can do for yourself, like run a half marathon, or learn to play the guitar or something. Think of how awesome it'll be when you reach that goal, and just focus on it.

Yet i dont believe in sleeping with many girls and not a fan of partying so not really a valid argument.

Edited by zimbos_05: 5/12/2012 04:16:45 PM

Doesn't seem like he's all that interested in that stuff anyway.

Ok, so poor examples. But it's harder to do things like travel, own your own home, etc. when you've got kids to worry about, etc.

That is excellent advice =d>

WGMG: Meant to be going to a work function in an hour and really don't feel up to it.

Totally missed in this in between my convo with afro. Thanks for the advice. I think part of my problem comes from parental pressure and the need for them to always want to be invovled.



My mate is married and currently on a euro trip with a one year old kid. He seems to be enjoing it. Perhaps some people can handle it and others cant.

Xmas break-up function?

Parents have a tendency to do that :lol: Just do something for yourself though.

Ill give you a very simple example, I buy a shirt i really want on the internet. Its a super hero shirt and i love it, exactly who i am and what i enjoy. Parcel arrives and this is what happens:

Me: OH YEAH!!!!!!
Parents: What did you buy now?
Me: A Flash t-shirt, its so awesome.
Parents: You always wasting your money online.
Me: I only ever buy my shirts from these stores really and it was only $20 free postage.
Parents: Stop wasting stuff online and maybe give us the money to contribute towards the house.

Oh my gosh was it a Flash t-shirt like the one that Sheldon wears?!

Parents are disapproving of most things it seems, it basically comes with being a parent. But your life is your own, and since at the end of the day your parents just want what's best with you, maybe you need to sit down and have a chat with them about where you see yourself going in the future and make sure they support you in that.

Nah, that is Friday night - I am skipping it to go to the AUFC v MV game instead. I don't feel like this thing tonight because I am still recovering from being ill so am heaps tired.

KC you are totally representing this afternoon :)

Do you not pay rent or contribute to the house expenses already? :?

:lol: Cheers! I've never seen anyone about my depression (I haven't actually been diagnosed with depression either because of that), so I'm basically just making things up for myself as I go along.

No, was just a flash shirt with the logo, not like sheldons. got it off Superherostuff.com or something like that.

Ive sat with my parents many times and tried to tell them that, look im quite in a dark place and just not really doing too well. I think i need some support and need to overcome this and work on getting over it. More often than not i get told, Well maybe stop sitting on your computer, get up and do things with your life and dont just be a lazy bugger. You just sit in your room and you play dumb games and dont want to help out in the house. Your brother and sister always willing to help out. Stop sleeping late and start getting up early by 7:30 the latest.

I agree on the sleeping late part, but i find that ive come out and basically told them how i feel and i get told that i need to fix myself and to just stop being upset, like i click my fingers and it works.

i think depression is not something that is culturally accepted so it tends to be shunned or overlooked a bit. Im not sure its the best thing, but that seems to be the case.



Not really, but thats not my fault. its how things have always been in our culture. Having said that i do contribute in many ways,probably just not as much as my brother and sister as they have proper full time jobs.

I'm sorry to hear about that :? Depression isn't the kind of thing you just tell people to "get over". I know exactly where you're coming from, trust me, I really do, and that's why I seriously advise choosing a goal and following through with it, no matter what. My depression has been worse in the past couple of weeks than it has been in the past couple of years, but having something personal to work towards has given me some purpose and direction, and something I feel like I can control. It's worth trying.

WGMG: relationships.

Ok, so this time last year I started liking this girl from school. Throughout December/January we would hang out and talk random shit, and because we were so alike I thought it was gonna go somewhere.
Then all of a sudden she stops talking to me, avoids me at group get-togethers etc and I couldn't/didn't understand why she did this. Anyway, after not talking to her for months I finally got over her and was ready to move on. Later on this year, we started talking again, and since uni finished a few weeks ago, we've been seeing each other more. Yada yada yada now I'm back to where I was 12 months ago with what it most likely the same outcome as 12 months ago.

Scumbag brain, doing this to me.

Strangely enough, pretty much exactly this happened to me, but when I was in high school. Sucked. Still don't think I'm 100% over what happened.

Dude, you should be pretty happy with that, don't forget that there are a lot of lads on here who pay their folks rent and all kinds of things.

WGMG: Going to have a 'quick kip' and waking up 5 hours later.

WAGMG: Cooking and chowing down a whole plate of pasta and I'm still hungry.