Encouraging her to do something she doesn't really want to do could end badly :lol:

#-o typing on autopilot. Pretty glaring typo :lol:

-PB

Not the greatest suggestion :lol: and without good communication with partner it could easily be a very unsatisfying, and keep in mind there are alternative sexual experiences to penetration.
Although, they could have a point, two friends I know have been going out for a while, the lady had little sex drive and no experience, and now she's practically running her boyfriend dry.
That was however a long term relationship where they both slowly developed. Similar happened to me now I think about it, before I was in a relationship, I didn't really think twice about sex, I was attracted to people, but it was something I didn't care about. Then after a while in a relationship and exploring new things, my Libido activated.

Not to mention we already know this guy (is she with the same guy?) has control issues and might not take kindly to being told to stop.

"Grit your teeth and bear it" is advice for ripping off a bandaid, not for inspiring a person's sexual libido. #-o

Pretty sure this is a very different person.

KC just see how things pan out, keep being honest with him and you will be surprised.

What the General said.

Very very different person, I ditched the other guy.

Cheers guys, I'll make sure I keep communicating with him on it anyway, and we'll see what happens further down the track.

It's not that I don't think it's a big deal, it's just that holding hands/cuddling/hugging pretty much fulfills my physical needs, so I'm not particularly interested in more. Thank god my boyfriend is so understanding, or I would've been dumped already.

Nothing wrong with taking things slowly. You might be an adult, but you're still young.

Modern television seems to have propagated this notion that you date someone and after a couple of dates you're expected to put out.

A couple of drinks, or she's too uptight :lol:

I love being around him, he makes me happy :) And he says that it's the same for him, but I know that's not going to last forever...
I know I shouldn't really be stressing about this already, but I know it's probably going to become an issue later on, and I'm kind of trying to prepare myself for it.

There's nothing to say you won't be comfortable with it when it does change. Take it as it comes (pun partially intended).

If I'm right about being asexual though, I'll never be interested in it, whereas he already is.

The only real way to find out is to see where it leads you. I know you don't want to, but part of exploring yourself is making mistakes and coming to terms with that is pretty important.

You're not asexual.

You can't possibly tell me what I am.



Will do, cheers.

I'm not telling you what you are, I'm telling you what you're not.

If you're going to be pedantic: You can't possibly tell me what I am, or what I am not.

I don't mean to snap, notor, sexuality is just something that's rather individual to the person, and it's confusing when it's not as straightforward as you thought. If you want to discuss it with me, you can PM me, but I don't really want to get in an argument about it.

:lol: You should know by now that notorganic knows more about you than you do. Through the interwebs. From 2500 km away.

Will PM later

Can't we just accept KC will find out in her own good mystical time and move on?

If only KC could accept that then sure.

-PB

Piss off imno :P

;) Seemed fitting.

I promise I'll stop :lol:

:lol::lol::lol:

Nice Imno, been thinking that for a while.

+1 :lol:

Edited by Eastern Glory: 29/5/2013 05:47:22 PM