'Lifting' to get girls to 'flock to you' is about the worst advice youve been given here.
Be healthy physically. Learn more and follow your passions academically and professionally as you grow up. Youll find people (boys, girls, pot-plants, whatever the fuck youre into) with whom you can actually connect with on a comfortable level and youll be fine.
Dont get sucked into thinking blokes at your school are slaying different chicks every weekend. They arent.

Edited by roary's mane: 1/12/2015 12:34:16 AM

No it isn't. He has just turned 16, he will be the centre of attention if he stands out physically at high school.

Everything else you said I agree with.

I get the feeling we've all slept with Draupy in someway or another. :lol: We've all at least shared a hole/orifice at some point in time.

i tend to disagree.
Aussie girls are heavily influenced by looks more than personality.
I used to know a ton of dudes in high school that did well with ladies on their looks yet had a personality of a doorknob.
you do really need to brush up on your physique if you are after the poon.
lets face it, you cant have a physique like seth rogan or jonah hill and hope that personality will get you poon on its own.
I think personality plays more of a part when women are in their 30s , 40s



Edited by Socawho: 1/12/2015 02:27:43 AM

Yeah I don't agree with pretty much all of that personality vs physique stuff, especially the women in their 30s/40s shit. That's some serious red pill shit right there haha.

It's simple. If he's more buff than other guys and has a better attitude than other guys, he'll get the chicks.

I reckon the only time you can get away with being fat or looking really average and being able to pull chicks is if you are rich mofo or have a high profile on the celebrity circuit.
Exhibit A...Kyle Sandilands.
Exhibit B...Geoff Edelsten
If you don't have any of these traits the highest you can probably aim for is a 5/10 chick..and even then you would be lucky.

I don't buy that bullshit about personality wins out. Personality is for sussing out whether someone is marriage material...not for getting a foot into the door to start with...if you're no oil painting its pretty hard to let personality shine when you get shut down quick smart on initial looks.

Edited by SocaWho: 1/12/2015 11:07:07 AM

Edited by SocaWho: 1/12/2015 11:07:21 AM

Salmon, don't get fit for others, get fit for yourself (not as in you NEED to get fit, as in don't be doing it just so you can pick up)

Only dudes with pedestrian personalities think this. It's cliche (though a lot of cliches are grounded in reality) to say, but you will have a lot more success with confidence and charisma than just not being fat (up to a point- not being physically able to leave the house is pretty hard to work with.) The thing is, for a lot of people weight training and exercise will help them combat their issues that prevent them from being confident. Very few overweight/out of shape people have the confidence and self belief to be interesting and charismatic to strangers, let alone people they are interested in romantically/sexually. I've run the gamut of super fit to fairly fat, and I've had no trouble at any point dating (or finding casual hook-ups)... at least since I first got fit. Before then I was a lot like salmon in that I was very body-negative and had zero confidence as a result. Getting fit gave me the confidence to put my personality out there, and once I realised people actually liked my personality the confidence stayed regardless of how my body fluctuated.

There will always be people who aren't interested in you, the important thing to realise is there are so many people available that it really doesn't matter if you don't get on with someone. Discover what you are passionate about and get excited about it around other people and the ones that matter will gravitate to you.

* Standards is another thing. Don't restrict yourself by judging people purely on appearance if you don't want the same done to you. Doesn't mean you can't/won't date "hot" people, but don't use it as your sole reason for being interested in someone. Plenty of super attractive people have all sorts of niche interests that may align with yours, but so do a lot of plain/average/overweight looking people and actual connections can lead to physical attraction beyond the superficial given a chance.

your right about the above but i believe most girls will go
for looks and a guy that looks after himself physically.
i hate saying it but its true....and im an average looking guy.
have you ever watched that reality show " average joe"...the hot chick went with looks and build over personality and wealth.
id be rich every time i saw a hot girl with a tradie type or a gym junkie with the tatts and the bad boy look.
if theres one thing i cant stand more is people giving advice to give false hope than to give the hard cold truth.
how many fat guys do you see with hot chicks?
that answer will give you a reality check...im sorry it sounds shallow but its a shallow world we live in

Edited by Socawho: 1/12/2015 01:14:22 PM

It's not all about looks. I mean, I don't consider myself ugly, but many m80s on here can attest to my exploits. Personality counts for a lot.

Have to ask socawho.

Does your cousin go for good looking guys or ones with charisma?

I can confirm it aint Draupy.
:lol:

Any advice for losing weight apart from cutting out as much breads/carbs and sugars as possible?

Wrong thread dude