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Unshackled wrote:Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse We "force" our children to do a lot of things, like go to bed on time and eat their vegetables. Some people believe not letting your children be "free" thinkers and do as they please is a form of child abuse. As Rusty said rusty wrote:Falsely telling children they've been abused is a form of child abuse and damages them emotionally I believe parents have the right to raise, nurture and impart values they believe to be in the best interest of their own flesh and blood in accordance with the laws of the land they reside. sleep is something people need to do, eating healthy is something people do for their health both of your examples are for health, religion is not for health so try talking about a non ridiculous example
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Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse We "force" our children to do a lot of things, like go to bed on time and eat their vegetables. Some people believe not letting your children be "free" thinkers and do as they please is a form of child abuse. As Rusty said rusty wrote:Falsely telling children they've been abused is a form of child abuse and damages them emotionally I believe parents have the right to raise, nurture and impart values they believe to be in the best interest of their own flesh and blood in accordance with the laws of the land they reside.
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This article is interesting because morality and religion is usually studied in adults and there isnt a lot of study on children Having said that a few things should raise red flags about the study 1. It is published ina biology journal rather than a social science journal even though none of the authors are biologists. Are there methodlogical flaws in the study that prevented it from being published in a social science journal? 2. It contradicts a very large body of research admittedly on adults on religiosity vs religion. If you dont believe me go to google scholar and type religiosity and any moral indicator and see what results you have. Specifically the methodology that find different conclusions are A. Survey results including ones that control for social desirability show positive relationships between religion and morality B. Unobtrusive observation which shows positive relationships between religiosity and morality C. Game experiments which show neutral or positive relationship between religiosity and morality An incomplete list of moral indicators are 1. Altruism 2. Volunteering in religious causes 3. Volunteering in non religious causes 4. Giving to religious causes 5. Giving to non religious causes 6. Not commiting a crime 7. Not raping 8. Neutral effect on rape myth acceptance 9. Not commiting domestic violence 10. Niceness 11. Chance of divorcing This list of course is incomplete but raises the question. Why is there so much media coverage of this one paper that cant even be published within its field when there is an article every week showing the opposite albeit in adults
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Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse In a way, but I would argue the parents don't know any better. Remember the majority of adults were raised to believe, thanks to primary & secondary school education and indoctrination from their own parents, that it is fine to have 'equivalency of beliefs' in that events written in ancient scripts are fact, like things we discover through many areas of scientific investigation, despite the key issue that these ancient events are not submitted to anywhere near the same rigorous levels of critique and investigation or, more specifically, the same level of logic, evidence and reasoning is not demanded of the claim of these events as being factual. Religious belief is a form of narcissism. Knowledge of one's impending obliteration form the existence of the universe forever, can be rather damaging to the ego. So, thanks in part to 'equivalency of beliefs' indoctrinated during childhood, one can assuage this narcissistic puncture by propagating magical thinking aided by wilful ignorance, so as to 'sear' the conscience.
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Munrubenmuz wrote:MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:Munrubenmuz wrote:MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:Nope havent been to church or mosque in a long time. Last time we went was for my middle childs baptism which was 6 months ago. Hell the last time we went to a mosque qe just sat at the cafe there That was a comment in line with what BET was saying. If you, or anyone, went to church the kids would go along. That's what happens 99% of the time. It's not a criticism or a dig at you just an observation. Ah fair enough. All good. In da hood?? Or is that too politically incorrect:lol:
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MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:Munrubenmuz wrote:MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:Nope havent been to church or mosque in a long time. Last time we went was for my middle childs baptism which was 6 months ago. Hell the last time we went to a mosque qe just sat at the cafe there That was a comment in line with what BET was saying. If you, or anyone, went to church the kids would go along. That's what happens 99% of the time. It's not a criticism or a dig at you just an observation. Ah fair enough. All good.
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Munrubenmuz wrote:MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:Nope havent been to church or mosque in a long time. Last time we went was for my middle childs baptism which was 6 months ago. Hell the last time we went to a mosque qe just sat at the cafe there That was a comment in line with what BET was saying. If you, or anyone, went to church the kids would go along. That's what happens 99% of the time. It's not a criticism or a dig at you just an observation. Ah fair enough.
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MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:Nope havent been to church or mosque in a long time. Last time we went was for my middle childs baptism which was 6 months ago. Hell the last time we went to a mosque qe just sat at the cafe there That was a comment in line with what BET was saying. If you, or anyone, went to church the kids would go along. That's what happens 99% of the time. It's not a criticism or a dig at you just an observation.
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Nope havent been to church or mosque in a long time. Last time we went was for my middle childs baptism which was 6 months ago. Hell the last time we went to a mosque qe just sat at the cafe there
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MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:I got three kids. My wife and i dont force our religious views into our children (im catholic and wife is muslim) I got two of three baptised for my grandmothers wishes which i dont mind. I dont belive indoctoring them Yeah but if you and your wife went to church they'd go with you.
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Carlito
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I got three kids. My wife and i dont force our religious views into our children (im catholic and wife is muslim) I got two of three baptised for my grandmothers wishes which i dont mind. I dont belive indoctoring them
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Eastern Glory wrote:Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse It's not really forcing... Well they can't really stay home can they?
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Eastern Glory wrote:Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse It's not really forcing... Also, why are you always wrong? Your hit rate for being wrong is well above 98% :lol: yeah so those young kids at church choose to be there and choose to follow that religion. Absolute bullshit And I think you're always wrong :)
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Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse It's not really forcing... Also, why are you always wrong? Your hit rate for being wrong is well above 98% :lol:
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Lastbroadcast wrote:Most Catholics I know have a strong sense of social justice. I certainly got this from my parents and other members of my family and community.
Unfortunately they taught me too well.
I stopped being a Catholic when I realised the church bureaucracy had long ago stopped believing in the message of love, tolerance and anti-greed that Jesus preached. (And also when I realised that the resurrection story was probably a bunch of crap. But the other one is far more important.)
According to idiots like Pell, God loves you and made you just the way you are...
...except if you're gay. Or a woman who wants to break free of oppressive gender norms. Or if you want (or need) to have an abortion. Or if you want to have sex before marriage. Or if you're someone who wants to use a condom to prevent STD's.
In which case the church will still love you... but you are a terrible person for making God so mad. Repent!
And before people say 'but Pope Francis is better!", well, yes he is. On a few issues. But deep down he still believes some of the same old rubbish - or at least much of the rest of the church does.
Edited by lastbroadcast: 13/11/2015 10:44:54 PM Decent post. On Pope Francis. He may believe some of the 'same old rubbish' but what of it. His stance on homosexuality is considerably more tolerant than those of others in the Church. Based on statements, I've heard him make about the issue, it's difficult to criticise him too much on that. As for abortion, (even though Pope Francis undoubtedly looks at it through a scriptural prism), there are scientifically-informed moral arguments for and against it. This has been discussed on another forum. I'm not arguing against it but I can see the validity of opposing abortion from various points of gestation. The Pope and the Catholic Church seem to view abortion as state-sanctioned murder. Given they think that, they can't be blamed for opposing it so vehemently. In fact, given the premises of their belief on abortion, it would be immoral if they did not make a hue and cry. When you see wrong, you're morally obliged to take a stand (no matter how uncomfortable it make others). To paraphrase one of the best historians, the road to Auschwitz was paved by indifference. And no, I have not just suggested abortion is akin to or as bad as the Holocaust. I'm just explaining that the Catholic Church seem to think it's evil and thus cannot be blamed for taking a stand there. Personally, I don't agree with the premises they believe about abortion. But I can understand their stance. Then Pope Francis' views on things like climate change, the death penalty and inequality are very progressive. I don't subscribe to his Church's beliefs. But if he can drastically improve the rhetoric of an organisation which has been, for a long time, toxic. Then that's something to be commended. Edited by quickflick: 14/11/2015 04:59:58 PM
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rusty wrote:Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse Falsely telling children they've been abused is a form of child abuse and damages them emotionally. But who is telling them? Are you saying if they're told or when they're told?
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rusty wrote:Draupnir wrote:rusty wrote:Roar #1 wrote:rusty wrote:If you tell a kid he is a victim of child abuse because of his religion beliefs he may develop emotional trauma. Has a study been done to prove your theory ? You first You claimed a positive. The burden of proof lies on he who is claiming something. Until then, your claims are as worthy as the classic Russell's teapot. The onus is on him first to empirically prove claim that religious studies are "child abuse", otherwise it's just a meaningless, empty allegation isn't it? Also can't we have a debate without referring to studies and emperical evidence for everything that is said, otherwise every debate would shut shut down very quickly. Every debate should be shut down quickly IMO. It's a meaningless format. But fair enough, you're right, I didn't see the original post. Front up Roar :lol:
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rusty wrote:Draupnir wrote:rusty wrote:Roar #1 wrote:rusty wrote:If you tell a kid he is a victim of child abuse because of his religion beliefs he may develop emotional trauma. Has a study been done to prove your theory ? You first You claimed a positive. The burden of proof lies on he who is claiming something. Until then, your claims are as worthy as the classic Russell's teapot. The onus is on him first to empirically prove claim that religious studies are "child abuse", otherwise it's just a meaningless, empty allegation isn't it? Also can't we have a debate without referring to studies and emperical evidence for everything that is said, otherwise every debate would shut shut down very quickly. It was my personal opinion
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Draupnir wrote:rusty wrote:Roar #1 wrote:rusty wrote:If you tell a kid he is a victim of child abuse because of his religion beliefs he may develop emotional trauma. Has a study been done to prove your theory ? You first You claimed a positive. The burden of proof lies on he who is claiming something. Until then, your claims are as worthy as the classic Russell's teapot. The onus is on him first to empirically prove claim that religious studies are "child abuse", otherwise it's just a meaningless, empty allegation isn't it? Also can't we have a debate without referring to studies and emperical evidence for everything that is said, otherwise every debate would shut shut down very quickly.
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rusty wrote:Roar #1 wrote:rusty wrote:If you tell a kid he is a victim of child abuse because of his religion beliefs he may develop emotional trauma. Has a study been done to prove your theory ? You first You claimed a positive. The burden of proof lies on he who is claiming something. Until then, your claims are as worthy as the classic Russell's teapot.
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Roar #1 wrote:rusty wrote:If you tell a kid he is a victim of child abuse because of his religion beliefs he may develop emotional trauma. Has a study been done to prove your theory ? You first
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rusty wrote:If you tell a kid he is a victim of child abuse because of his religion beliefs he may develop emotional trauma. Has a study been done to prove your theory ?
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It interesting although not surprising that the Muslim kids wanted the harshest punishments
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If you tell a kid he is a victim of child abuse because of his religion beliefs he may develop emotional trauma.
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rusty wrote:Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse Falsely telling children they've been abused is a form of child abuse and damages them emotionally. In what scenario does this happen ?
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I don't get how kids handing out stickers somehow makes them more or less moral, or what kids pushing each other a little bit has got to do with anything.
I really hope these kinds to studies aren't publicly funded, but they probably are. #waste
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Roar #1 wrote:Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse Falsely telling children they've been abused is a form of child abuse and damages them emotionally.
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Forcing a child to follow a religion is a form of child abuse
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Les Gock wrote:Here's a balanced take on the study from a science publication, as opposed to the socialist Guardian newspaper: http://news.sciencemag.org/brain-behavior/2015/11/nonreligious-children-are-more-generousThe last few paragraphs do put things in context: Quote:The study is already prompting head scratching over how it squares with similar studies of adults. Azim Shariff, a psychologist at the University of Oregon in Eugene, says it contrasts with his analysis that, taken as a whole, previous research found no overall effect of religion on adults faced with these kind of moral tests. Certainly opens up some interesting questions for further research, and of course will need to be replicated. Predictably, this doesn't prevent anti-religious bigots like the OP from drawing stone-cold conclusions from one study. Equally, the headline obsessed modern media doesn't understand (or refuses to understand) the concept of scientific replication. FTR I'm agnostic, so don't particularly care either way. But it's interesting that lefties are given carte blanche to attack certain institutions or groups in society by making sweeping generalisations, while simultaneously crying racism, sexism etc if their precious sacred cows are even mildly critiqued . Social justice warriors are experts at selective tolerance, just as hypocritical and bigoted as hardline religious types. The OP fits this description perfectly. Good post and well argued. I'm an atheist and won't defend religion for one second but old mate the OP has drawn a long bow here.
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Murdoch Rags Ltd wrote:Les Gock wrote:Predictably, this doesn't prevent anti-religious bigots like the OP from drawing stone-cold conclusions from one study. If evidenced based thinking & anti-magical based thinking = bigotry, then I'll quite happy be labelled a bigot, or at least your definition of bigotry. Although that would be an interesting definition of bigotry. The interesting point I take by the psychologist you reference is that he was talking about adults. Whereas the study is about children. So you have committed the logical fallacy of introducing a combination of a strawman & red herring. im sure murdoch rags is an mcjules multi
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