The picture you have painted in my mind is of a girl who probably isn't mature enough for a serious relationship, she likes the idea of it, but probably isn't serious enough to honour it.

She has already entered into a relationship supposedly based on love with you, in the full knowledge that she was letting another bloke (a mate of yours, no less) put his dick in her on a regular basis. CLEARLY she isn't as serious as she says she is about having a committed relationship with you.

I'm willing to put money on it that she will fail at being faithful to you on the very first occasion, she'll be out with the girls at the clubs, half cut, random dude hitting on her, and she'll go home with him. No risk, she isn't at the stage of her life were she is ready for a serious relationship by the sounds of it. She just wants to have fun mate, she's just agreeing to the relationship thing with you because she likes the sound of it, but deep down, she just wants some fun.

Edited by RJL25: 18/1/2013 10:53:29 PM

Fortnight? That's being very generous. 3-4 days IMO. :P

All the best KC.

So turns out getting over someone you spent the last 6 years loving, living with, and basically existing with is harder than first through...who knew?

yep..

Rebound shag. Seriously.

yep ,you'll get there though

Thanks for the advice guys, really means a lot. I'll keep you posted, I'm sure there will be another twist soon!

Whatever you do, just be careful, don't rush into it.

Probably not seeing him till Tuesday/Wednesday, so you're safe for now :P

Until he bails on you.

Do you think he will?

No, I'm kidding. He's probably too worried you'll rip his balls off :P

I swear I'm not that scary. Chances are I'll probably bail on him anyway.

I'm trying to keep 2 girls at a good distance from me intill i work out which im seriously into. A good distance being somewhere i can make a move from, but also somewhere i can back out of with minimal damage. I'm a tad worried I might get that a little wrong. We'll see I suppose, fortunately 2 said girls do not know each other, so that helps.

Ahahaha, oh lawd. Ok so the girl who I posted about before is back with her ex and has been for a couple of weeks. Yeah great, I'm pissed off but what do you do. She keeps posting instagram photos of her/him/both of them detailing every minor fucking thing he does that isn't cuntish (which now that I think about it is quite rare :lol:) with the hashtag "#bestboyfriendaward". What I feel when I see it is like a mix of rage, bewilderment and pity :lol:

Every day I get a little bit closer to just cutting her out of my life completely, especially seeing as when we hang out she won't fuck up about the cockhead.

Get out.

I feel like such a grouch, my advice in this thread is always 'get out' :lol:

Delete, block, abort abort

Nothing wrong with a bit of emotional self-preservation. That said, sometimes you've got to risk it for the biscuit.

Yeah, ditch her.

Yyyeah I'm gonna call her today to arrange a meet-up where I'm basically gonna tell her to sort her shit out and until then I don't want to have anything to do with her or cockhead.

Don't even do that. Just cut her off.

Edited by keepersball: 21/1/2013 12:10:37 PM

:lol: wasn't that what I told you to do initially? :lol:

Best of luck with that!

Reading the last 2 pages of this thread kinda makes me glad I'm single. :lol:

Go for the second one that you fell for.

Dude, just cut her out! RUN! FAST!!!

Well it was pretty much simultaneous :lol:
One of them is doing a bit of 'soulsearching' so that could have an impact, if she comes out fundamentalist christian ill be out of there.

Yeah, not sure if you want to get caught up in soul searching. Just as long as you don't string them both along it's fine.

Fuck you, do you always have to be right?