Don't let it get to you. She clearly thought you were older than that, right? Take advantage of that.

Just keep at it. Older birds are heaps better anyway. More experienced in the sack and more emotionally developed.

Edited by afromanGT: 21/3/2013 02:30:33 AM

Trust me, this will become less of an issue. The main thing is to just act at their level... Don't be ashamed of your age, you can't change that, so be proud of the fact that you're mistakable for someone older, and make her forget your age.


When I was overseas and out every night last year, I hit it off with girls nearly 10 years older, just because the way I carried myself gave them no chance to re-think the age 'issue'.
That said... Many of them were in country bars :lol:


The most important thing is that if a girl ever tells you she's 'twenty fun', she knows she's older but she's DTF.

Edited by farrand93: 21/3/2013 08:34:29 AM

And if she doesn't want it anymore, don't fret. You're young, more birds are going to come along in your life.

Okay so I think this dude might have a crush on me :D

..........aaaaaaaand?

And I don't know what to do :lol:

And I don't know what to do :lol:

He'll make a move sooner or later if he's that interested.

He probably isn't really. He just seemed like he was being quite flirty, but he's probably like that with all of the girls anyway.

He probably isn't really. He just seemed like he was being quite flirty, but he's probably like that with all of the girls anyway.

He'll make a move sooner or later if he's that interested.

Why are guys asking me to hang out in one on one situations? I'm really not good with those.

Because you're much less likely to suck their cock in front of a group of people?

Im serious. If they want to see you alone they're basically asking for a date which they hope will eventually, or very quickly, lead to sex.

But whyyyyyy. Damn my school and it's slutty reputation :lol:

Srsly though, how do I make sure I'm not leading anyone on?

Post pics of yourself, I make judgement on whether you worth it or not

KC, you really confuse me.

You always go on about how you're unhappy about being alone, and you're positive you'll remain so forever, yet apparently guys are asking you out, and you're complaining!

Guys aren't going to go on group dates, this isn't the 1950's anymore. Step outside of your comfort zone, sure it will be tough at first, but it will be worth it immeasurably afterward.

I don't mean to sound like I'm complaining, I'm just completely not used to getting any kind of male attention. I don't really know what to do about it. I hate being lonely, but I'm really bad at letting people in. Basically I'm full of very conflicting thoughts and feelings, so it is kind of confusing :?

Srsly though, how do I make sure I'm not leading anyone on?

I mean this completely seriously, but #YOLO.