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Quote:A boy of nine who was found hanged is believed to have killed himself after he was ‘bullied for being white’ by an Asian gang at school. Aaron Dugmore – thought to be one of the youngest children in the UK to commit suicide – was discovered in his bedroom after being tormented for months, his parents said. They said Aaron was threatened with a plastic knife by one Asian pupil, who warned him: ‘Next time it will be a real one.’ He was also allegedly told by another pupil that ‘all the white people should be dead’ and he was forced to hide from the bullies in the playground at lunchtime. Aaron’s mother, Kelly-Marie Dugmore, 30, and stepfather Paul Jones, 43, said that despite complaints to the school, nothing was done to stop the bullying. Aaron had recently started in Year Five at Erdington Hall Primary School in Birmingham, a school where 75 per cent of pupils come from ethnic minority backgrounds. According to staff at the school he had already ‘settled in quickly’ with his classmates after he joined the school last September when his family moved nearby. The school, which caters for 450 pupils aged three to 11, received an ‘inadequate’ rating by Ofsted inspectors last year. 'It's better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all': The message written by Aaron Dugmore's mother Kelly on her Facebook page Aaron was discovered by Miss Dugmore hanged in his bedroom at the family home in the Erdington district of Birmingham at about 6pm on February 11. He was taken to Birmingham Children’s Hospital where doctors desperately attempted to revive him but he died the following day from a suspected cardiac arrest. His mother said she was convinced the taunts led to her son killing himself. ‘Aaron got on with all the children at his last school, and for him to have been bullied because of the colour of his skin makes me feel sick to my stomach,’ she said. Mr Jones said that from Aaron’s first day of joining the school he had noticed a change in him. ‘He became argumentative with his brothers and sisters, which wasn’t like him at all,’ he added. ‘Eventually he told us that he was being bullied by a group of Asian children at school and had to hide from them in the playground at lunchtime.’ His mother claimed she went to see the head teacher of the school several times only to be told: ‘You didn’t have to come to this school, you chose to come here.’ A neighbour of the boy’s grandmother earlier told how ‘he had been targeted by a gang of older bullies at the school’. She said: ‘They made fun of him because he was the new kid but no one really thought it was any more than playground stuff.’ An inquest was opened at Birmingham Coroner’s Court last week but was adjourned to a date to be fixed. Detective Inspector David Wallbank, of West Midlands Police, confirmed that the force was investigating allegations that Aaron was being bullied in the run-up to his death. Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2283777/Boy-9-hanged-bullied-white.html#ixzz2LzNxIASI
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KiwiChick1
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A 9 year old killed himself because of bullying? A 9 year old?! That's so fucked up.
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afromanGT
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As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems.
I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures.
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KiwiChick1
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afromanGT wrote:As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems.
I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures. Teachers suck when it comes to anything to do with bullying. The parents/friends probably didn't even realise. It's just horrible that someone so young can be driven to killing themselves, seriously, why the fuck do people even bully others?!
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lukerobinho
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KiwiChick1 wrote:A 9 year old killed himself because of bullying? A 9 year old?! That's so fucked up. Indeed it is. shame many on here would rather look the other way than admit some races have a cultural problem
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afromanGT
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KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems.
I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures. Teachers suck when it comes to anything to do with bullying. The parents/friends probably didn't even realise. It's just horrible that someone so young can be driven to killing themselves, seriously, why the fuck do people even bully others?! The kid's grandmother's nextdoor neighbour knew, it doesn't seem like it was much of a secret. You never want to hear about a kid being bullied like that, but the parents need to actually do something to prepare their child for the real world instead of just expecting the school to fix it.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:A 9 year old killed himself because of bullying? A 9 year old?! That's so fucked up. So very sad.
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KiwiChick1
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afromanGT wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems.
I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures. Teachers suck when it comes to anything to do with bullying. The parents/friends probably didn't even realise. It's just horrible that someone so young can be driven to killing themselves, seriously, why the fuck do people even bully others?! The kid's grandmother's nextdoor neighbour knew, it doesn't seem like it was much of a secret. You never want to hear about a kid being bullied like that, but the parents need to actually do something to prepare their child for the real world instead of just expecting the school to fix it. Sorry, only skim read the article. That's all well and good, but it's the parents of the kids who are doing the bullying who need to do the fixing. Kids aren't born hating others, they're taught that. If I ever have kids they're totally doing some kind of martial art/self defense thing though.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems.
I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures. Teachers suck when it comes to anything to do with bullying. The parents/friends probably didn't even realise. It's just horrible that someone so young can be driven to killing themselves, seriously, why the fuck do people even bully others?! The kid's grandmother's nextdoor neighbour knew, it doesn't seem like it was much of a secret. You never want to hear about a kid being bullied like that, but the parents need to actually do something to prepare their child for the real world instead of just expecting the school to fix it. Sorry, only skim read the article. That's all well and good, but it's the parents of the kids who are doing the bullying who need to do the fixing. Kids aren't born hating others, they're taught that. If I ever have kids they're totally doing some kind of martial art/self defense thing though. But if they get bullied by Asians that won't work.
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KiwiChick1
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macktheknife wrote:But if they get bullied by Asians that won't work. They won't be going to school in Auckland.
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afromanGT
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KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems.
I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures. Teachers suck when it comes to anything to do with bullying. The parents/friends probably didn't even realise. It's just horrible that someone so young can be driven to killing themselves, seriously, why the fuck do people even bully others?! The kid's grandmother's nextdoor neighbour knew, it doesn't seem like it was much of a secret. You never want to hear about a kid being bullied like that, but the parents need to actually do something to prepare their child for the real world instead of just expecting the school to fix it. Sorry, only skim read the article. That's all well and good, but it's the parents of the kids who are doing the bullying who need to do the fixing. Kids aren't born hating others, they're taught that. If I ever have kids they're totally doing some kind of martial art/self defense thing though. You're right, 3 year olds hate 2 things; Brussel sprouts and naps. Racial hatred is something that is taught. The kids definitely are an issue, and their parents' behaviour that these children think this kind of behaviour is acceptable. Nonetheless, throughout life people are going to say and do things that you don't like and kids have to learn how to deal with that. The parents also need to protect their child better.
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afromanGT wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems.
I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures. Teachers suck when it comes to anything to do with bullying. The parents/friends probably didn't even realise. It's just horrible that someone so young can be driven to killing themselves, seriously, why the fuck do people even bully others?! The kid's grandmother's nextdoor neighbour knew, it doesn't seem like it was much of a secret. You never want to hear about a kid being bullied like that, but the parents need to actually do something to prepare their child for the real world instead of just expecting the school to fix it. Whilst I agree that more should have been dne to try and prevent something like this, the kid was fucking 9. The parents wouldn't have even been expected to have prepared him for puberty let alone suicide.
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jlm8695 wrote:Whilst I agree that more should have been dne to try and prevent something like this, the kid was fucking 9. The parents wouldn't have even been expected to have prepared him for puberty let alone suicide. As a parent it should be your sole objective to protect your child.
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lukerobinho wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:A 9 year old killed himself because of bullying? A 9 year old?! That's so fucked up. Indeed it is. shame many on here would rather look the other way than admit some races have a cultural problem Bullies come in all colours. This isn't a cultural problem.
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lukerobinho wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:A 9 year old killed himself because of bullying? A 9 year old?! That's so fucked up. Indeed it is. shame many on here would rather look the other way than admit some races have a cultural problem Do you think white people have never bullied anyone else for being another race?
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MusikResponse wrote:lukerobinho wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:A 9 year old killed himself because of bullying? A 9 year old?! That's so fucked up. Indeed it is. shame many on here would rather look the other way than admit some races have a cultural problem Do you think white people have never bullied anyone else for being another race? No idea what you're talking about
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This is horrible.
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afromanGT wrote:As sad as that is, that sounds like a cop-out for many more deep-seeded problems. 100% The girl that killed herself in Sydney a few years ago, Danii Sanders had massive family issues... The media just took it and ran it as a bullying suicide. Such a load of bullshit and a total disrespect to the kids. Edited by farrand93: 26/2/2013 08:57:03 PM
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Benjo wrote:This is horrible. Likewise...if Benjo had taken every time he was made fun of for having red hair to heart...
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afromanGT wrote:I have a pretty pale complexion and definitely copped more than my share of bullying for that throughout school. The kids teachers, parents and friends are all failures. Being Irish and very pale I've also suffered from this but I do think there is a possibility of some sort of racial motivation which probably won't be discussed or investigated. When white people attack Asians, it's racially motivated, when Asians attack white people the issue isn't even investigated. We have to go about these incidents with absolute objectivity, racism works both ways. In the UK when we say Asians we mean Pakistan and India. Edited by KenGooner_GCU: 26/2/2013 09:08:41 PM
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Quote:When white people attack Asians, it's racially motivated, when Asians attack white people the issue isn't even investigated. Unless someone brings religion into it. Then it's all on for the right-wing nutjobs.
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People are cruel. I hated school for much the same reason. No kid should have to live in a world where suicide is an option.
One question though, when I was 9 I wasn't even aware of suicide. Why did this kid know about it?
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KiwiChick1
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AJohn wrote:People are cruel. I hated school for much the same reason. No kid should have to live in a world where suicide is an option.
One question though, when I was 9 I wasn't even aware of suicide. Why did this kid know about it? I'd say that's largely to do with the internet and the media these days.
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