Fucking hell scouse you come off as a fat, beta neckbeard. :lol:

Don't you pay for strippers lol?

-PB

I read the article you linked too.
Interesting, if I were to sum it up, a womens basic instinct to not want to lose what they have triggers a mode of overcompensating to keep what they have.
Women whos partners allow them to run their lives, have no desire to treat their partner better because they have no fear of losing them.

The other thing I take from this one specific article is that to have a successful partnership you must be almost working against each other. This requires the male to imagine the female will always try to beat him into submission, and to counter that you need to always leave her with a sense of unease re: your commitment?

But thanks for the info, think I have a better idea what trp is about.

I read the article you linked too.
Interesting, if I were to sum it up, a womens basic instinct to not want to lose what they have triggers a mode of overcompensating to keep what they have.
Women whos partners allow them to run their lives, have no desire to treat their partner better because they have no fear of losing them.

The other thing I take from this one specific article is that to have a successful partnership you must be almost working against each other. This requires the male to imagine the female will always try to beat him into submission, and to counter that you need to always leave her with a sense of unease re: your commitment?

But thanks for the info, think I have a better idea what trp is about.

Always/must/requires etc are terms that imply necessity or inevitability that aren't always there.

Most of this collection of works revolves around probabilities rather than inevitabilities, hence the discussion around NAWALT and women of worth etc.

I wouldn't put any value in detractors claiming strawman factors of poignancy without substance, it's entirely what you make of it and how, if at all, it applies to your own life. As others have already stated, it's generally a way many men live their lives without ever hearing of TRP theory.

As a daughter, I realize now how important my father's actions and behaviors were in influencing my development. He was always available to listen and advise me when I had a problem. When I was upset, he would listen to me, but he wanted the facts of the situation - my emotional state was secondary. He would always tell me to take deep breaths, calm down and think. His voice was calm and he relied on logic to help me navigate through my problems. He never emphasized material possessions - and from a very young age, my parents made it clear that I could not get anything through pouting or throwing a fit. They did not spoil me, and they had a lot of rules, but not to the point of insanity. I wasn't allowed to wear spaghetti strap shirts, or show my stomach. My clothing was modest and modern.

My dad kept me busy. I played four sports until high school. Two my freshman year, and then focused on one. I played for club teams. I had a curfew, and school was important.

My father cannot be manipulated, and I can only remember one time in my entire life when I saw him angry and heard him yell. It was terrifying. He never had to raise his voice to let people know he was displeased or disappointed. To this day, the thought of letting him down is one of my greatest fears. I want him to be proud of me.

Be a good man, teach your daughter to think and use logic. Push her to be better, get her involved in activities. Whether it's sports, debate club, theater, or volunteer work. Teach her that it's important to be able to work alongside other people, even if you don't always agree with or like them. Athletics taught me so many lessons, most of which I didn't start to appreciate or recognize until college.

Teach her to be responsible with money. I had to work for my allowance, my parents didn't buy me a car or anything frivolous and expensive. I had to earn the things I wanted. I am the youngest child, and I grew up with hand-me-down everything, and I am so thankful for that. My parents always wanted to know where I would be, what friends I would be with, their numbers, and an adult always had to be around if I was at a house. I wasn't given free reign to wander around and do whatever I wanted.

We ate meals together most nights. My dad was involved in my sports. He wasn't a crazy spectator. When I was young, he coached two of my sports teams (different sports). He asked my if I enjoyed what I was doing. When I wanted to quit one sport my freshman year of high school, he told me that I had to finish out the season, and then tell my coach that I wouldn't be returning the next year. If I started something, I had to see it through.

My father loves to build things, and he had me help him from a very young age. I learned to hammer, saw, measure, cut, and use power tools. He remolded our old house, and whenever I was home, I was expected to help. I enjoyed working with him, even though it was hard.

My father has a way of turning any conversation into a lesson, and I have never stopped learning from him. He values family and has taught me that I have a responsibility to my relatives, regardless of where they live or when I last saw them.

Be a good man. Be firm and loving, and your children will be just fine. Don't worry about force feeding them specific ideas, talk with them, debate in a calm manner. Teach critical thinking and set a good example.

All the best to you.

Warning: Whilst it is fair game to have a bit of fun at notorganic's expense his family should be out bounds. It would be great if we could not have the commentary or questions about his wife.

Women worth giving your commitment to are rare. So rare in fact we call them Unicorns, and you can consider this TRP on hard mode. Maintaining attraction and frame for one night isn't that hard once you've had some success and internalized game. Maintaining it throughout the course of a long term relationship is another beast altogether.

:shock:

Who would've though, a woman thinks TRP is fucking retarded.

That's what that face means? :lol:

-PB

Notor

Emma Watson (hnnnnng) has taken over social media because of this Gender Equality speech she did. If you haven't yet watched/read it, can you please do.

Then, can you please give a detailed summary of your views of her speech, and the ideals behind it, from the point of view of a TRP? I'm genuinely interested.

Morris, if we married each other and then both took TRP at the same time, would the universe collapse in upon itself?

Morris, if we married each other and then both took TRP at the same time, would the universe collapse in upon itself?

Your wife wants to go out with her friends for a meal, but you want to go out with your mates for a meal too... Someone has to stay home and look after the kid(s)... So... Who's going out with friends tonight, and who's watching Peppa Pig?

Generally, this wouldn't happen because we plan ahead.

If it did end up that we both made plans and a babysitter fell through at the 11th hour, there's a few variables that would come into play before deciding who goes and who stays ie: what's the occasion, who planned first, are kids welcome too, how long since you've caught up with that person/group, who stayed home last time etc.

It's a logical process, not an emotional one.

Notor has stated several times that alot of the same principals of trp are used in everyday relationships without ever hearing or reading of it.

While I dont follow it, I basically see that it is just a self help guide.

Fair enough... I'm baffled by the trend of having a group for everything. I'm not sure if society needs groups to show them how to do things right, or if groups form to convince themselves that they are doing right...

I would like to join the group of people who think like Benjamin does.