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Funny, I was only cancelling it because I'm sick of paying to watch ads period !
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Munrubenmuz wrote:433 wrote:
Why then can't two consenting siblings choose to get married?
Blokes tying themselves in intellectual knots over this. The answer is they can't because it's socially unacceptable. (But they're not honest enough to say so and instead say things like "well if they're consenting adults that's OK".) Not true, nor should it be. Siblings shouldn't marry. Homosexuals marrying each other used to be be socially unacceptable but has become less so. Apparently that's OK. I made the same argument as 433 about 2 or 3 pages back about polygamous marriages, rather than incest in this case, but no one was game enough to argue against it. The slippery slope argument is thrown about as a way of shutting down the discussion but no amount of obfuscation hides the fact that if one sort of marriage is OK then all types of marriage are OK. At least be honest and say you are happy to discriminate against some types of marriage. Edited by munrubenmuz: 21/8/2015 10:27:54 PM You're getting a liberal (small l) ideological point of view mixed up with your own thought processes. Gold!
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topic (its about the foxtel ad) finished a while ago
Can we continue talking about gay marriage in the australian politics thread?
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^^^ 442 delivers again. Incest being defended as a legitimate relationship. Gold!
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433 wrote:
Why then can't two consenting siblings choose to get married?
Blokes tying themselves in intellectual knots over this. The answer is they can't because it's socially unacceptable. (But they're not honest enough to say so and instead say things like "well if they're consenting adults that's OK".) Not true, nor should it be. Siblings shouldn't marry. Homosexuals marrying each other used to be be socially unacceptable but has become less so. Apparently that's OK. I made the same argument as 433 about 2 or 3 pages back about polygamous marriages, rather than incest in this case, but no one was game enough to argue against it. The slippery slope argument is thrown about as a way of shutting down the discussion but no amount of obfuscation hides the fact that if one sort of marriage is OK then all types of marriage are OK. At least be honest and say you are happy to discriminate against some types of marriage. Edited by munrubenmuz: 21/8/2015 10:27:54 PM
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Draupnir wrote:433 wrote:u4486662 wrote:433 wrote:How so?
inb4 you took the time out of your day to comment
Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 09:10:25 PM If you take time out of your day to post on a topic, clearly you must care at least a little bit about it. Its ok to care, even just a little bit. Lol You're embarrassing yourself again mate. You seriously sound like you crawled out of Tony Abbott's basement with some of the shit you come up with :lol: Gay marriage is somehow comparable to essentially incest? You were on your way to become a non-joke, but... FMD :LOL: People justify gay marriage by saying that whatever two consenting adults do is their business. Fine. Why then can't two consenting siblings choose to get married? What is your thoughts on that? Re: Scotch Ever heard of adoption mate?
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11.mvfc.11 wrote:How is it stupid to compare gay marriage to incest?
You want people to accept the fact that sexuality is beyond control, and same sex couples should be allowed to marry, but two people who happen to be siblings/cousins/etc. and in love are somehow unequal? Incestuous relationships can lead to children with some pretty horrendous genetic defects, which in all honesty, should not be allowed to happen. Now this may come as a shock to you so you might want to sit down before you read the rest of this comment, but same sex couples cannot acctually procreate by themselves and are therefore impacting nobodies lives but their own. Condemned666 wrote:Theres homeless people, people living in tents at Belmore Park in front of Central Station in a "rich" country like Australia, and people want gay marriage, seems like we have our priorities straight! Also a ludicrous statement. There are numerous personal and economical factors involving things like this that cannot simply be brushed away with the stroke of a pen. Housing all the homeless would require huge sums of money and manpower that this country is unwilling to pay. Gay marriage however requires about zero money and nothing more than a pen and some paper and from the moment it is signed life will go on as usual for the entire country. Edited by scotch&coke: 21/8/2015 04:35:48 PMEdited by scotch&coke: 21/8/2015 04:36:20 PM
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It's stupid to compare gay marriage to incest.
But to answer the separate question about siblings getting married - they are two consenting adults, and there shouldn't be a problem. If your concern is genetic defects for the offspring, then presumably you'd be willing to ban two people carrying genetic diseases (e.g. Fragile X, where there are instances where it is possible to tell with certainty prior conception that a child will suffer) from marrying?
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433 wrote:u4486662 wrote:433 wrote:How so?
inb4 you took the time out of your day to comment
Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 09:10:25 PM If you take time out of your day to post on a topic, clearly you must care at least a little bit about it. Its ok to care, even just a little bit. Lol You're embarrassing yourself again mate. You seriously sound like you crawled out of Tony Abbott's basement with some of the shit you come up with :lol: Gay marriage is somehow comparable to essentially incest? You were on your way to become a non-joke, but... FMD :LOL:
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FactCheck Q&A: was Katy Faust correct on same-sex family studies and kids' rights? https://theconversation.com/factcheck-qanda-was-katy-faust-correct-on-same-sex-family-studies-and-kids-rights-46257Quote:Verdict ...When considering studies that make appropriate, like-for-like comparisons, the overwhelming weight of evidence indicates that children with same-sex attracted parents are developing well – even when taking into account the acknowledged limitations of social science research...
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u4486662 wrote:433 wrote:How so?
inb4 you took the time out of your day to comment
Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 09:10:25 PM If you take time out of your day to post on a topic, clearly you must care at least a little bit about it. Its ok to care, even just a little bit. Lol
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u4486662 wrote:433 wrote:u4486662 wrote:433 wrote:Do supporters of same sex marriage also support the rights of siblings getting married?
Just a question.
Do you? I thought you didn't care. What I think is irrelevant. I'm just curious what proponents of gay marriage argue. Please answer the question. Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 08:43:35 PM Well it was commonplace years ago for relatives to get married. So yes, they can if they want. They're two consenting adults. There is of course the problem of increased risk of congenital defects if they were to have children. And, clearly, you do care. Generally, anything that is between consenting adults that doesn't harm others should be legal. Whether or not the increased risk of birth defects counts as harming others and I'd have to think about. Under these criteria I'd say polygamy should probably be legal too. Oh and he absolutely does care.
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433 wrote:How so?
inb4 you took the time out of your day to comment
Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 09:10:25 PM If you take time out of your day to post on a topic, clearly you must care at least a little bit about it. Its ok to care, even just a little bit.
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sydneyfc1987 wrote:mcjules wrote:sydneyfc1987 wrote:mcjules wrote: What do they mean by misuse? Sham marriages to take advantage of benefits? They'll be more promiscuous and not take the sanctity of marriage seriously? Why would homosexuals be more likely to misuse marriage over heterosexuals?
Essentially this one. Marriages of convenience, helping people get residency Australia etc. Think about it, we all know of someone who has married somebody for visa reasons. Marriage equality could potentially increase such marriages. Many, if not most of these people may not even be homosexual or lesbian. Again, i'm not saying I think this is a valid reason not to have marriage equality but its a legitimate concern. At best I'd put that in the "against marriage in general" category but it has a fair whiff of "gays can't be trusted with marriage" as well. In what way? Two people of the same sex getting married for financial/Visa purposes could be straight for all its worth. Its got nothing to do with actual gay people getting married and everything to do with those in society, straight, gay, bi, whatever, who look to take advantage of a situation. In the way it's being used as a reason to not allow gay couples to marry but allow heterosexual couples. I have a friend that married while working overseas to a foreigner, it wasn't that trivial to get a visa for her. Still happens of course.
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How so?
inb4 you took the time out of your day to comment
Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 09:10:25 PM
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433 wrote:u4486662 wrote:433 wrote:Do supporters of same sex marriage also support the rights of siblings getting married?
Just a question.
Do you? I thought you didn't care. What I think is irrelevant. I'm just curious what proponents of gay marriage argue. Please answer the question. Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 08:43:35 PM Well it was commonplace years ago for relatives to get married. So yes, they can if they want. They're two consenting adults. There is of course the problem of increased risk of congenital defects if they were to have children. And, clearly, you do care.
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u4486662 wrote:433 wrote:Do supporters of same sex marriage also support the rights of siblings getting married?
Just a question.
Do you? I thought you didn't care. What I think is irrelevant. I'm just curious what proponents of gay marriage argue. Please answer the question. Edited by 433: 13/8/2015 08:43:35 PM
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433 wrote:Do supporters of same sex marriage also support the rights of siblings getting married?
Just a question.
Do you? I thought you didn't care.
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mcjules wrote:sydneyfc1987 wrote:mcjules wrote: What do they mean by misuse? Sham marriages to take advantage of benefits? They'll be more promiscuous and not take the sanctity of marriage seriously? Why would homosexuals be more likely to misuse marriage over heterosexuals?
Essentially this one. Marriages of convenience, helping people get residency Australia etc. Think about it, we all know of someone who has married somebody for visa reasons. Marriage equality could potentially increase such marriages. Many, if not most of these people may not even be homosexual or lesbian. Again, i'm not saying I think this is a valid reason not to have marriage equality but its a legitimate concern. At best I'd put that in the "against marriage in general" category but it has a fair whiff of "gays can't be trusted with marriage" as well. In what way? Two people of the same sex getting married for financial/Visa purposes could be straight for all its worth. Its got nothing to do with actual gay people getting married and everything to do with those in society, straight, gay, bi, whatever, who look to take advantage of a situation.
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Do supporters of same sex marriage also support the rights of siblings getting married?
Just a question.
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sydneyfc1987 wrote:mcjules wrote: What do they mean by misuse? Sham marriages to take advantage of benefits? They'll be more promiscuous and not take the sanctity of marriage seriously? Why would homosexuals be more likely to misuse marriage over heterosexuals?
Essentially this one. Marriages of convenience, helping people get residency Australia etc. Think about it, we all know of someone who has married somebody for visa reasons. Marriage equality could potentially increase such marriages. Many, if not most of these people may not even be homosexual or lesbian. Again, i'm not saying I think this is a valid reason not to have marriage equality but its a legitimate concern. At best I'd put that in the "against marriage in general" category but it has a fair whiff of "gays can't be trusted with marriage" as well.
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mcjules wrote: What do they mean by misuse? Sham marriages to take advantage of benefits? They'll be more promiscuous and not take the sanctity of marriage seriously? Why would homosexuals be more likely to misuse marriage over heterosexuals?
Essentially this one. Marriages of convenience, helping people get residency Australia etc. Think about it, we all know of someone who has married somebody for visa reasons. Marriage equality could potentially increase such marriages. Many, if not most of these people may not even be homosexual or lesbian. Again, i'm not saying I think this is a valid reason not to have marriage equality but its a legitimate concern.
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sydneyfc1987 wrote:mcjules wrote:Unshackled wrote:I think your friend makes some good points. Adding 'Equality' to it I believe is weaponizing the term/movement so it becomes beyond reproach and all dissidents shall be branded heretics or other weaponized words like bigot or racist. oh boy :roll: It's marriage equality because people aren't asking for the definition of marriage in law to say "between two people to the exclusion of others" Not have a brand new definition for "gay marriage" that's separate to heterosexual marriage. If you believe in egalitarianism then it absolutely should be beyond reproach. I already posted this before but if an argument suggests in any way that gay couples are lesser than hetero couples then it's bigoted. I've never understood why people think they can have opinion and for it not to be criticised by those with differing opinions. Dunno where racism comes into this though :lol: I don't have a problem with criticism of many of the anti-gay marriage arguments, in fact I, like many, will argue in favour of marriage equality with an individual who argues against it. What I do have a problem with is people like yourself forcing potential social exclusion upon those with dissenting views by instantly labeling them as homophobic or bigoted. I've often argued about this subject with my parents and other older family members who believe that changes in marriage laws could lead to their misuse. I don't agree with them and argue that this already occurs in heterosexual relationships, but I do see some logic in the argument and can also see that there is nothing necessarily homophobic in this view. Interesting, I'm open to arguments and I understand that people have prejudiced views. I just want those that do, recognise that they are in fact bigoted/prejudiced/homophobic. What do they mean by misuse? Sham marriages to take advantage of benefits? They'll be more promiscuous and not take the sanctity of marriage seriously? Why would homosexuals be more likely to misuse marriage over heterosexuals?
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mcjules wrote:Unshackled wrote:I think your friend makes some good points. Adding 'Equality' to it I believe is weaponizing the term/movement so it becomes beyond reproach and all dissidents shall be branded heretics or other weaponized words like bigot or racist. oh boy :roll: It's marriage equality because people aren't asking for the definition of marriage in law to say "between two people to the exclusion of others" Not have a brand new definition for "gay marriage" that's separate to heterosexual marriage. If you believe in egalitarianism then it absolutely should be beyond reproach. I already posted this before but if an argument suggests in any way that gay couples are lesser than hetero couples then it's bigoted. I've never understood why people think they can have opinion and for it not to be criticised by those with differing opinions. Dunno where racism comes into this though :lol: I don't have a problem with criticism of many of the anti-gay marriage arguments, in fact I, like many, will argue in favour of marriage equality with an individual who argues against it. What I do have a problem with is people like yourself forcing potential social exclusion upon those with dissenting views by instantly labeling them as homophobic or bigoted. I've often argued about this subject with my parents and other older family members who believe that changes in marriage laws could lead to their misuse. I don't agree with them and argue that this already occurs in heterosexual relationships, but I do see some logic in the argument and can also see that there is nothing necessarily homophobic in this view.
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Unshackled wrote:mcjules wrote:Unshackled wrote:433 wrote:
I'm apathetic towards the issue by the way.
As am I, and I would imagine many are. It troubles me though that society is becoming increasingly demoralised becoming apathetic to not bother voicing their concerns anymore leaving certain groups to push their agendas and ideals unopposed. If you're apathetic then you shouldn't care either way. Clearly you do by your post. I care when society is browbeat into submission and no longer has the will or the voice to self determination. Yep it's impossible for people to actually think this is right and people are just too afraid of being "browbeaten" to speak up :lol:
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Crusader wrote:mcjules wrote:Unshackled wrote:I think your friend makes some good points. Adding 'Equality' to it I believe is weaponizing the term/movement so it becomes beyond reproach and all dissidents shall be branded heretics or other weaponized words like bigot or racist. oh boy :roll: It's marriage equality because people aren't asking for the definition of marriage in law to say "between two people to the exclusion of others" Not have a brand new definition for "gay marriage" that's separate to heterosexual marriage. If you believe in egalitarianism then it absolutely should be beyond reproach. That isn't equality, you are discriminating against Muslims, Mormons and anyone else who believes in polygamy. Bigot. So smug :lol:
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mcjules wrote:Unshackled wrote:I think your friend makes some good points. Adding 'Equality' to it I believe is weaponizing the term/movement so it becomes beyond reproach and all dissidents shall be branded heretics or other weaponized words like bigot or racist. oh boy :roll: It's marriage equality because people aren't asking for the definition of marriage in law to say "between two people to the exclusion of others" Not have a brand new definition for "gay marriage" that's separate to heterosexual marriage. If you believe in egalitarianism then it absolutely should be beyond reproach. That isn't equality, you are discriminating against Muslims, Mormons and anyone else who believes in polygamy. Bigot.
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Captain Haddock wrote:mcjules wrote:Captain Haddock wrote:The Maco wrote:Quote:“We believe this debate should be won by the force of the argument in favour of reform, not by refusing to engage in debate or allow contrary opinion to be put,” a spokesman said.  if we were sent to the polls to vote on gay marriage, id vote for it to happen but Jesus the way some people carry on because someone has a differing opinion to them is disgraceful (and that's people on both sides of the fence) Edited by The Maco: 10/8/2015 07:15:28 PM Exactly. Funniest are those who label people 'bigots' simply because they disagree with their personal opinion, completely unaware of how ironic it is for them to make such a statement. Being a bigot because you're intolerant of bigots.  Incorrect. Being intolerant of somebody because they hold a differing opinion to yours (in this case, on the definition of marriage) is bigotry. You are wasting your time attempting to use logic and the sanctimonious, he is protected by an impenetrable armour of smug.
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mcjules wrote:Unshackled wrote:433 wrote:
I'm apathetic towards the issue by the way.
As am I, and I would imagine many are. It troubles me though that society is becoming increasingly demoralised becoming apathetic to not bother voicing their concerns anymore leaving certain groups to push their agendas and ideals unopposed. If you're apathetic then you shouldn't care either way. Clearly you do by your post. I care when society is browbeat into submission and no longer has the will or the voice to self determination.
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Unshackled wrote:433 wrote:
I'm apathetic towards the issue by the way.
As am I, and I would imagine many are. It troubles me though that society is becoming increasingly demoralised becoming apathetic to not bother voicing their concerns anymore leaving certain groups to push their agendas and ideals unopposed. ^ This! Theres homeless people, people living in tents at Belmore Park in front of Central Station in a "rich" country like Australia, and people want gay marriage, seems like we have our priorities straight! :-({|=
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