Alf realising he has a pretty fucked rape dungeon...

Benjo - I can see where your coming from mate, but as I said, its probably an indication that she really had no interest in you other then you were maybe someone she could have a bit of fun with.

Don't get all hissy about it mate, no offense but your acting a bit like she's dumped you or something but in reality, you'd never even had a date...

But Alf didn't wear boots.

Come to mention it...he didn't wear very much at all.

Just open up the thread and see this at the top of the page, so I go to the next page to see what I've missed....

......and then I see this :lol:


Made for some quality reading.



There's only one real course of action here Benjo, you've got to channel your inner Alf and stomp this cunts head in with your boots.

The engagement ring is actually just a twisted up stirrer.

:lol:

"Hey, just wondering if you'd like to go out for coffee with me on Thursday afternoon and maybe afterwards take my last name?"

"wanna come to my rape dungeon... For coffee?"

Starbucks coffee is seriously shit.

Coffee is serious shit.

With relevant flow-chart and diagrams.

Nup. You muffed up, and it doesn't sound like she was that interested in you to begin with. You need to build a bridge champ.

:lol:

Perhaps you should stop asking girls for coffee and start asking for coffee as long as they refuse to see anyone else until they have explained to youwhy they ddon't want to be with you in detail.

I'm not allowed to be upset then?

Maybe you do sound like a bitch, but that doesn't make it any less true :lol:

Benjo, at the end of the day her personal life is none of your business.

Yeah, to go out to coffee. Not date. Why should she talk to you about it when you're acting like this?

I didn't say "she needs my approval". I'm just pissed off that she finds it ok to ignore me, you know, the guy she agreed to go out to coffee with. Yeah, i know i didn't act on that and she doesn't owe me anyway, but it would be nice if she'd actually talk to me about it.

Maybe I'm going to sound like a bitch for saying this, but it's actually not your right to know that. She wasn't involved with you, so she doesn't need your approval to get involved with this other guy. Yeah, it might have been nice of her to send you a message back, but I hardly blame her for "ignoring" you when you're blowing this way out of proportion.

Beating yourself up about it isn't going to help things.

She'll spout some crap about not wanting to reject you and hurt your feelings, just watch.

I get that i screwed up like alaways, I didn't make a move, yada yada yada, I suck etc. But messaged her twice, both times she "saw" the message on facebook, and then "unsaw" it, i.e. deleted it. If she'd messaged me and said "look, I like Johnathon, i want to be wth him," I would have respected her more and whilst I wouldn't have been 100% ok with it, I'd understand and I wouldn't have a major problem with it. As it is, I don't have a problem with him, or their relationship, it's more the fact she decided to ignore me altogether.

Wtih little L-plates covering her nipples when she takes her top off :lol:

Sounded like you copped a pretty solid brush!

Sounds like she's a bitch, is that better?

:lol:

To be fair, hooking up with guys is a slut's profession. She could well be a slut in training.

Is there a big difference between calling someone a slut, and calling them a whore?

Where did I say she was a slut? At the very least, she could've not deleted the messages I sent her.

Lesson learned for Benjo: Take your chances mate.

Y'all motherfuckers need Dan Savage.

Ah, all good, wasn't sure if you meant it.

Was using the age old technique used by men to console other men of making out that the women he missed out on was no good anyway, in order to make him feel better about missing out.

Was not being all that serious, obviously she hasn't done anything wrong, settle



Edited by RJL25: 4/1/2013 08:22:12 PM

Not really, she sounds like a normal woman who is on the verge of being slutshamed for not waiting around for someone that had the chance to make a move, but didn't.