Stand against bullying to honour Brodie Panlock’s memory


Stand against bullying to honour Brodie Panlock’s memory

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Stand against bullying to honour Brodie Panlock’s memory
June 15, 2016 4:00pm
GRAHAM ASHTONHerald Sun
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Rae and Damian Panlock with a photo of their daughter Brodie.
Almost 60 people charged with bullying since Brodie’s Law
IT has been five years since Brodie’s Law was introduced, making serious bullying a crime punishable by up to 10 years in jail; yet bullying remains a compelling issue in Victoria.

New statistics show that since June 2011, more than 140 offences have been recorded and 58 offenders have been charged.

As disturbing as that rate of offending is, my concern is that these figures could be only the tip of the iceberg.

The story of Brodie Panlock remains haunting to this day. She was only 19 when she ended her life in September 2006.

Described by family and friends as a determined young woman, buoyant, chirpy and compassionate, she was driven to suicide after enduring ongoing humiliating and intimidating bullying at her workplace in Hawthorn. It was an appalling tragedy. Thanks in large measure to the courage and determined campaigning of her parents, some good came from it.

Brodie’s Law was a watershed moment that sought to recognise the enormous harm that bullying can inflict, punish those responsible and send a message that it would no longer be tolerated. At Victoria Police, I am determined that we build on that important work, holding criminal offenders to account and using intervention orders to protect vulnerable people. But at a community level I fear there is still some way to go in eliminating this behaviour.




Damien and Rae Panlock, parents of Brodie Panlock holding a picture of their daughter.
I read with exasperation late last year that a large corporation had allowed a store worker to keep his job while serving six months in prison for the serious bullying of a manager.

It was described by the sentencing judge as an extended and systemic campaign of workplace bullying that made his victims lives “ … a living hell”.

What message did that send to the manager, her colleagues or the wider community?

That was one example. Throughout the community serious physical and psychological bullying is causing real and ongoing harm. It must be stopped.

We all have a responsibility to stamp out bullying and rally round victims wherever we see this occurring — be that in a workplace, the schoolyard or a sports club.

It extends to cyber bullying too. Social media and digital technology is changing the way people interact. Bullying, whether face to face or over the internet, is a crime.

We are the ones who can turn a blind eye; or we can choose to speak up and stand up to the bullies.

No one deserves to be threatened, humiliated or abused. As the case of Brodie Panlock demonstrates, employers and those in authority have a duty of care to ensure their workplaces, their schools and their clubs are places where the community can feel safe and supported.

So what should you do if you are the subject of bullying at work or at school or on the internet?


Chief Commissioner Graham Ashton. Picture: Alex Coppel
As the Take a Stand Campaign against Bullying outlines, you should:

TAKE action early and take responsibility for your own health and wellbeing.

KNOW what to do, make sure you are informed and keep a diary of the bullying behaviour.

GET support from someone you trust; it may be a supervisor or manager, teacher, GP, parent, health and safety representative or a local police officer.

DO your research; find out what bullying is and the behaviour that is associated with it.

IF it is bullying in the workplace, find out what policies your workplace has and what your workplace should be doing to deal with bullying.

IF the bullying is by phone or internet, advise your service provider.

REPORT to police all bullying that includes serious threats to your safety or life. And if you see bullying:

DON’T be a passive bystander — take action without putting your own health and wellbeing at risk.

DON’T take part in or encourage bullying.

SUPPORT the person who is being bullied and encourage them to ask for help.

REPORT bullying to someone in authority or someone you trust. If others know what is going on, report it as a group.

Let’s hope the fifth anniversary of Victoria’s anti-bullying legislation — or Brodie’s Law — will bring about real change in our community.

Anyone who needs support can call Lifeline (24 hours a day) on 13 11 14, visit the Lifeline website or contact local police

Graham Ashton is Chief Commissioner of Victoria Police

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There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.
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scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.

Sadly work place bullying is still rampant in some places. The old adage its only a joke is played out.
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scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.


For the first time, but certainly not the last, I began to believe that Arsenals moods and fortunes somehow reflected my own. - Hornby

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salmonfc wrote:
scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



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salmonfc wrote:
Posted: 14 June 2016 17:28:40
I'm fucking done with this website.


Less than 48 hours.
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Toughlove wrote:
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Posted: 14 June 2016 17:28:40
I'm fucking done with this website.


Less than 48 hours.

I wasn't being serious.

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Toughlove wrote:
salmonfc wrote:
Posted: 14 June 2016 17:28:40
I'm fucking done with this website.


Less than 48 hours.

Leave him alone.
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Sadly there was a case in geelong not to long ago where the person who should know better ie the damn business owner/carpenter was on the act of bullying his apprentice. Only got fined 10 k
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There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM

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"9GABmeme420" wrote:
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scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM


Probably. Ask Scott21, he seems to be the official 442 morality police.
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Scott21 the morality police:lol:
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MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:
Scott21 the morality police:lol:

No I am just sick of seeing people, especially Salmon and ardtho get picked on all the time.

No one picked on you the other day. No matter who you think someone is or what you think they are; who are you?

Edited by scott21: 16/6/2016 08:23:10 PM
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You misinterpreted me scott. And socawho is know to be facetious .
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Toughlove wrote:
"9GABmeme420" wrote:
Gayfish wrote:
salmonfc wrote:
scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM


Probably. Ask Scott21, he seems to be the official 442 morality police.

I dont like you. You are not funny. You are not good.
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Ok then.
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scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
"9GABmeme420" wrote:
Gayfish wrote:
salmonfc wrote:
scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM


Probably. Ask Scott21, he seems to be the official 442 morality police.

I dont like you. You are not funny. You are not good.


Coming from the hypocrite that slagged off the matildas and then posted a thread about the pararoos calling for support I'll wear that with pride.


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Toughlove wrote:
scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
"9GABmeme420" wrote:
Gayfish wrote:
salmonfc wrote:
scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM


Probably. Ask Scott21, he seems to be the official 442 morality police.

I dont like you. You are not funny. You are not good.


Coming from the hypocrite that slagged off the matildas and then posted a thread about the pararoos calling for support I'll wear that with pride.


I post plenty of threads. I dont post threads to angle some arguement. I actuay posted that one for your benefit because you were going off on one in the other thread. Then you decided to call out forum members because they disagree with your views.

You get your kicks by posting pictures of Seinfeld charcters after being asked to stop many times. You should grow up.

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scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
"9GABmeme420" wrote:
Gayfish wrote:
salmonfc wrote:
scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM


Probably. Ask Scott21, he seems to be the official 442 morality police.

I dont like you. You are not funny. You are not good.


Coming from the hypocrite that slagged off the matildas and then posted a thread about the pararoos calling for support I'll wear that with pride.


I post plenty of threads. I dont post threads to angle some arguement. I actuay posted that one for your benefit because you were going off on one in the other thread. Then you decided to call out forum members because they disagree with your views.

You get your kicks by posting pictures of Seinfeld charcters after being asked to stop many times. You should grow up.


That was a good thread you posted though. Too bad the dozen or so he-men that bagged out the matildas didn't have the balls to slag off the pararoos using the same logic.

Also no one has asked me to stop posting Seinfeld pictures.
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Toughlove wrote:
scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
"9GABmeme420" wrote:
Gayfish wrote:
salmonfc wrote:
scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM


Probably. Ask Scott21, he seems to be the official 442 morality police.

I dont like you. You are not funny. You are not good.


Coming from the hypocrite that slagged off the matildas and then posted a thread about the pararoos calling for support I'll wear that with pride.


I post plenty of threads. I dont post threads to angle some arguement. I actuay posted that one for your benefit because you were going off on one in the other thread. Then you decided to call out forum members because they disagree with your views.

You get your kicks by posting pictures of Seinfeld charcters after being asked to stop many times. You should grow up.


That was a good thread you posted though. Too bad the dozen or so he-men that bagged out the matildas didn't have the balls to slag off the pararoos using the same logic.

Also no one has asked me to stop posting Seinfeld pictures.

Uhh...

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MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:
You misinterpreted me scott. And socawho is know to be facetious .

Telling me to fuck off .. Whose been facetious
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Do you know what facetious means m80?
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11.mvfc.11 wrote:
[quote=MvFCArsenal16.8]Do you know what facetious means m80?
I don't mind a bit of banter, but I can't abide you giving English lessons.[/quote?
Do you know what facetious means ?;)
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Toughlove wrote:
scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
scott21 wrote:
Toughlove wrote:
"9GABmeme420" wrote:
Gayfish wrote:
salmonfc wrote:
scott21 wrote:
There is no need to systematically pick on people. Especially after they have asked you to stop.



Is this bullying?

Edited by "9GABmeme420": 16/6/2016 08:09:12 PM


Probably. Ask Scott21, he seems to be the official 442 morality police.

I dont like you. You are not funny. You are not good.


Coming from the hypocrite that slagged off the matildas and then posted a thread about the pararoos calling for support I'll wear that with pride.


I post plenty of threads. I dont post threads to angle some arguement. I actuay posted that one for your benefit because you were going off on one in the other thread. Then you decided to call out forum members because they disagree with your views.

You get your kicks by posting pictures of Seinfeld charcters after being asked to stop many times. You should grow up.


That was a good thread you posted though. Too bad the dozen or so he-men that bagged out the matildas didn't have the balls to slag off the pararoos using the same logic.

Also no one has asked me to stop posting Seinfeld pictures.


Not on this account no.

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Declaration: I've offered professional services for the cafe where Brodie worked. That was several years ago though.

Now. The irony of a few of the posters here supporting this cause. Yet some of these posters are happy to continually payout and defame other 442 posters, should not be lost on anyone.

Don't think supporting causes like this rids you of your responsibility to behave civilly with your fellow posters on here.

Cue farkwit comments.
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So you're a trained psychological practiconer now?
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MvFCArsenal16.8 wrote:
So you're a trained psychological practiconer now?


He was delivering the milk.

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Soft news may i ask what did you study? Did you do a bachelors?? How long did you study for and how you were .. just curious as my cousin has her B.sc (pysch) grad diploma in pysch qnd her masters in counselling. Shes also an aproved aphra board supervisor.just curious

Edited by Mvfcarsenal16.8: 18/6/2016 03:53:29 AM
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Waiting softnews. Dont put it out there your a pysch and dont back it up,
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Meanwhile let's get rid of the safe schools program amirite?
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