Holy fuck, what a bitch! I would get back at her if I was you, it'd serve her right.

WGMG: Hospital waiting lists.

WGMG: found out my friend who is leaving for Canada next week will probably be gone for four years, not two years as originally said.

WGMG: 5th spot

Yeah its weird we were 2 and a half years, and were planning on buying a house had been out house hunting for weeks than next week she gave me the flick for no discernible reason. I'm thinking she may have cheated has been away with work heaps lately but aren't exactly speaking to her so will not be asking.

WGMG: Meet a girl, hit it off at a great rate of nots.. then she fucking mentions she has a bf.... fuck off. fuck.

WGMG: I am way too forgiving a person sometimes.

WGMG: Guys who complain about being friendzoned, yet they expect every hot girl they meet to be into them.

Fairly sure it isn't every hot girl. It's the ones you actually like that end up friendzoning you.

It only seems that way because you're not trying to pursue a relationship with the others.

Exactly my point. I don't expect every hot girl to be into me. I rarely expect any hot girl to be in to me. Of course I'm not trying to pursue a relationship with the ones i don't like. What's the point in that? When i actually try and pursue a relationship with a girl, i get friendzoned.

Edited by benjo: 30/7/2012 03:44:46 PM

I think you're missing my point, but whatever.

Well elaborate then. You didn't make it very clear the first time.

I made it as clear as I could.

WGMG: Hospitals.

Farrand93 never said the girl was hot. It's entirely possible she was ugly.

Far out ual, that's rough. I can imagine your rage.


WGMG: It would appear interest has disappeared from the girl from Saturday night. Back to where I started. Yay.

WAGMG: A late night ahead filled with uni work + a 7am start at work tomorrow.

WGMG: Living with people who make very loud passionate sex almost every night. Didn't think much of it before, but now that I'm single.

Afro off here could upstage you on that. At least you don't walk into the kitchen to it smelling like a fishmongers the next morning. :lol::lol: :lol:

I know this is a male dominated forum and you spend a fair bit of time conversing with us, but seriously it doesn't mean you have an understanding of the male mind any better than we do for the female mind, you clearly don't get the concept or Farrand93's post.

Please, impart your wisdom upon me then. And I'm not sure in which part I pretend to understand the male mind, so no need to be a condescending prick about it.

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Touchy
Your post clearly illustrates you don't get the friendzone concept and you then followed it with a massive assumption about the way certain males think. You can't convey tone over the net, I wasn't having a dig, but you can't expect to post such a ridiculous comment about males on a forum that is surely at least 95% dominated by males and not expect to be pulled up for your naivety.

Settle down and grow up.

I have no idea what's so ridiculous about what I said.

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I'm so glad that I never have to do that again. Though I was a little concerned about going looking for the butter the other day, only to find it in my housemate's bedroom. :lol: I have my own tub of butter now.

Ferrand is merely expressing his disappointment in finding out that a girl he's getting along with really well is spoken for. Every guy has experienced that at some point. KC makes a fair point, but she's missed the sentiment of Ferrand's post. Who wouldn't be disappointed to be talking to a hot girl, getting along really well and then find out that she's spoken for and you'll never know if you guys had genuine chemistry.

The fortnightly debate on the existence of the 'friend zone' that has become a fixture of this forum is mostly down to the fact that majority of the posters in ET are young adult males. Big surprise that most of their social interactions are motivated by the possibility of sexual gratification.

Don't be daft. Friendship is all well and good, but when you're looking at a girl who's gorgeous, you guys get along really well and you're thinking "I would do terrible things to you", finding out that she 'just wants to be friends' is absolutely a consolation prize. Friends are easy to make, they come and go.

Edited by afromanGT: 31/7/2012 05:28:41 AM

Zero problems with friendzone, but this particular one bugged me. Totally got the wrong impression.

There's nothing to say you necessarily got the wrong impression. Just because she has a boyfriend who she's not going to cheat on doesn't mean that she wasn't into you.

And fair play to the girl for telling you she's spoken for rather than stringing you along for free drinks all night, making you think you're in and then ditching you. It gives you a chance to "pick another target" so to speak.

Woah... so much agro aimed at kiwichick! She missed what i meant, but give the poor girl a break!

Yeah, it was worthwhile knowing, Still never a happy situation though.

WGMG: One of my units that I enrolled in at Uni this semester isn't coming up on my UWS page. Yet when I click on enrollments, it says I've enrolled and I've got classes for it.

Maybe the subject has a coordinator who doesn't use computers. I've had several subjects at my uni that didn't register on my page during the semester because of that.