And what's this about KC hacking Benjo's FB lol?

-PB

So I don't wank on ET all that much but wtf just happened?

Clearly some back story there lol.

Benjo just gets a bit of a hard time about some of his posts.

Bit of an over reaction. It's an internet forum ffs. What do you expect to come from a post like that? You've been on the forum a long time to know what will eventuate.

WGMG: This fucking forum.

I am so fucking sick of you guys bringing that up, thinking it's a joke. Guess what? You made your jokes, you had your fun, I didn't mind it. But now, I'm about to break. I am so fucking sickj of all the shit I cop on here. Everything I post is responded to with "Oh, did he/she knock back your coffee". Get some orginality. I never acted like it wasn't my fault she went off with that guy, I never said I did nothing wrong and yet people just pick on me for fun, make jokes about it. And guess what? It hurts. I'm not going to pretend it doesn't.

I get it. You're all men, and I'm sensitive. I don't expect you to understand. I'm different from you, I post differently, I act differently. But I'm not changing who I am just to suit you lot. Yeah, so I've posted things that people think are wussy and not manyl. Hell, this explosion, what's the bet some one calls me out for being a girl? And tells me to stop being a prima donna? But this is the level I've reached. I'm so fucking sick of it.

I've copped a lot of shit in my life. It's funny, everyone told me I had to ask that girl to coffee, and when i did and she said yes and then changed her mind, all you could do is make fun of me. For those who know me, they know the one thing I lack is self confidence.

I've been posting on here for ages. And I wondered why people left. And now I see why. People will call me a girl, they'll say things like "Gee, Benjo was a douche who was too sensitive". Maybe I am too sensitive, but it's who I am. And i sure as hell don't need people constantly making that same joke over and over at my expense.

None you know thins, but I've been seeing a pysch for a couple of months, and I was diagnosed with depression last month. This site won't help me get better. The people on here just make fun of me. I know people don't like me, i don't expect to be liked by everyone, i don't expect people to agree with the things I post. But quite honestly, when you're depressed, and everyone makes jokes about you which just hurt, you just feel shitter than ever.

And you'll say "one tiny post made him cry like a baby". No, this is merely the straw that broke the camle's back.

Inb4 someone tells me to get over myself.

This. You can't post something of a personal nature and then get butthurt when someone else brings it up. It's INVITING the shit you're copping, I was going to make a joke but the ensuing butthurt for the next 10 pages from every flog and their dog having a say wouldn't be worth the 10 minutes of chuckles.

Don't mention the t-shirt :-$

WGMG: Got a rejection email for one of the 4 jobs I applied for in WA. Another 3 rejection emails would just top it off, which I can totally see coming.

I've applied for about 60 jobs in the last month. Still jobless. Chin up mate.

Benjo, no one here has anything against you on a personal level or thinks you're any less of a men or any of that bullshit, get off it, in fact I think you seem like a pretty decent bloke.

No one makes fun of you for the sake of making fun of you, you have to realize how naïve you come across at times and how acting like a spoiled brat at other times is never going to endear you to anyone, and this isn't just FFT I'm talking about, this is life. This is an internet forum dedicated to opinion, arguments and jokes ensue constantly but you need to depersonalize it and realize there is no malice behind anything anyone here does. TBH mate, I think you're a good bloke but at times here you act with a certain naivety that illustrates a lack of sensitivity or understanding with the rest of us, I didn't realize you have depression, that fucking sucks and I'm sorry, but sitting here accusing everyone isn't going to help things at all, the common link is you, and I'm not saying you have to change the way you act but maybe occasionally take the time to consider the ramifications and perceptions that will be formed from what you post, do that anywhere and you might just find you will start to get along better with everyone.

Just a question, why do some people make jokes at my expense? Is it because I'm an easy target? I'm just curious, that's all.

Just a question, why do you think you're so special that you're the only who cops jokes?

Just a question, why do you think you're so special that you're the only who cops jokes?

WGMG: This fucking forum.

I am so fucking sick of you guys bringing that up, thinking it's a joke. Guess what? You made your jokes, you had your fun, I didn't mind it. But now, I'm about to break. I am so fucking sickj of all the shit I cop on here. Everything I post is responded to with "Oh, did he/she knock back your coffee". Get some orginality. I never acted like it wasn't my fault she went off with that guy, I never said I did nothing wrong and yet people just pick on me for fun, make jokes about it. And guess what? It hurts. I'm not going to pretend it doesn't.

I get it. You're all men, and I'm sensitive. I don't expect you to understand. I'm different from you, I post differently, I act differently. But I'm not changing who I am just to suit you lot. Yeah, so I've posted things that people think are wussy and not manyl. Hell, this explosion, what's the bet some one calls me out for being a girl? And tells me to stop being a prima donna? But this is the level I've reached. I'm so fucking sick of it.

I've copped a lot of shit in my life. It's funny, everyone told me I had to ask that girl to coffee, and when i did and she said yes and then changed her mind, all you could do is make fun of me. For those who know me, they know the one thing I lack is self confidence.

I've been posting on here for ages. And I wondered why people left. And now I see why. People will call me a girl, they'll say things like "Gee, Benjo was a douche who was too sensitive". Maybe I am too sensitive, but it's who I am. And i sure as hell don't need people constantly making that same joke over and over at my expense.

None you know thins, but I've been seeing a pysch for a couple of months, and I was diagnosed with depression last month. This site won't help me get better. The people on here just make fun of me. I know people don't like me, i don't expect to be liked by everyone, i don't expect people to agree with the things I post. But quite honestly, when you're depressed, and everyone makes jokes about you which just hurt, you just feel shitter than ever.

And you'll say "one tiny post made him cry like a baby". No, this is merely the straw that broke the camle's back.

Inb4 someone tells me to get over myself.

A lad comes out saying that he is being hurt by some of the jokes people make at his expense so what do some of you do, make more jokes?

Whatever the history grow up and give it a rest. If it were any of you in the same position i'm sure you'd not appreciate it.

If he's hurt by people making jokes about petty things such as T-Shirt's and Meals, I sincerely question why he even bothers coming onto ET. There is no agenda against Benjo, people just call it how they see it, and if its fucking petty why can't people say so.

Edited by jlm8695: 22/1/2013 08:46:44 PM