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afromanGT
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Farrand93 wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:Srsly afro, there's having a joke, and then there's just being a douche. Long ago, Afro perfected the art of blending the two :lol: I feel like I should be flattered by this :lol:
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General Ashnak
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KiwiChick1 wrote:Anyone here identify themselves as an alpha male? What's the best way to deal with them? What do you mean? Are you talking about relationship wise? Or dealing on a personal basis?
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Roar_Brisbane
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11.mvfc.11 wrote:Benjo? :lol: I lost it. :lol: =d>
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KiwiChick1
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General Ashnak wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:Anyone here identify themselves as an alpha male? What's the best way to deal with them? What do you mean? Are you talking about relationship wise? Or dealing on a personal basis? Relationship wise.
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KiwiChick1
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Like, I don't know if I'd be able to stand up for myself enough, or if I'd just get pushed around too easily.
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afromanGT
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KiwiChick1
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afromanGT wrote:I don't even... What?
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notorganic
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KiwiChick1 wrote:Like, I don't know if I'd be able to stand up for myself enough, or if I'd just get pushed around too easily. This is something that you need to determine for yourself, over time, with different people. People are generally naturally dominant or submissive, in a relationship context some take it a step further and even get off on it. Sometimes partners like to step it up and switch roles. The main thing is that there is no such thing as a standard relationship, and they are an infinite amount of possible combinations. Just remember that you are an autonomous human being - in terms of a relationship you deserve to be happy and treated the way that YOU want to be treated. Always be prepared to walk away from a relationship if it is not giving you the emotional, physical and sexual support that you need because there are plenty of other guys (or girls) that will be able to meet those needs for you.
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KiwiChick1
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Cheers.
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KiwiChick1
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Is there anyone who's actually any good with relationship advice?
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notorganic
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KiwiChick1 wrote:Is there anyone who's actually any good with relationship advice? What happened with AlphaMan? I'm guessing that it's related to your WGMG post.
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notorganic
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Conversely, I just had a great new nickname idea for AfromanGT.
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KiwiChick1
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notorganic wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:Is there anyone who's actually any good with relationship advice? What happened with AlphaMan? I'm guessing that it's related to your WGMG post. There's a side of him that I really like, and another one that I really don't. I feel like I should give him more of a chance though.
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notorganic
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If that's how he behaves during courting, it's only going to amplify if you guys were in an actual relationship.
Bullet dodged, IMO.
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KiwiChick1
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notorganic wrote:If that's how he behaves during courting, it's only going to amplify if you guys were in an actual relationship.
Bullet dodged, IMO. He's just got a very strong personality, which is very different from me.
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AJohn
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I'm sort of with notor on this. From the GMG and your PMs, I get the feeling that he's just going to annoy you a lot. Duck and run is my advice.
I never date anyone if I can think of three reasons why I shouldn't.
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KiwiChick1
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AJohn wrote:I'm sort of with notor on this. From the GMG and your PMs, I get the feeling that he's just going to annoy you a lot. Duck and run is my advice.
I never date anyone if I can think of three reasons why I shouldn't. He's not a bad dude.
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Roar_Brisbane
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KiwiChick1 wrote:AJohn wrote:I'm sort of with notor on this. From the GMG and your PMs, I get the feeling that he's just going to annoy you a lot. Duck and run is my advice.
I never date anyone if I can think of three reasons why I shouldn't. He's not a bad dude. You always say this KC, then you'll spend the next month toing and froing on this. Just give the guy the flick.
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afromanGT
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notorganic wrote:Conversely, I just had a great new nickname idea for AfromanGT. I have no doubt it'll be as hilarious as the day you got married :roll: Quote:There's a side of him that I really like, and another one that I really don't. I feel like I should give him more of a chance though. There's nothing wrong with giving the guy a chance. You're always the kind of person who wants to see the best in people. Why wouldn't you give him a chance? The worst thing that can happen is that your doubts are confirmed, and you lose nothing. You're an emotionally expressive person, and that's cool and all. But sometimes you don't have to care at all. Just go with the flow.
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notorganic
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afromanGT wrote:notorganic wrote:Conversely, I just had a great new nickname idea for AfromanGT. I have no doubt it'll be as hilarious as the day you got married :roll: Calm down there, AlphamanGT. You're not impressing anyone with your chest puffed out like that.
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notorganic wrote:afromanGT wrote:notorganic wrote:Conversely, I just had a great new nickname idea for AfromanGT. I have no doubt it'll be as hilarious as the day you got married :roll: Calm down there, AlphamanGT. You're not impressing anyone with your chest puffed out like that. :lol:
He was a man of specific quirks. He believed that all meals should be earned through physical effort. He also contended, zealously like a drunk with a political point, that the third dimension would not be possible if it werent for the existence of water.
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AlphamanGT
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notorganic wrote:afromanGT wrote:notorganic wrote:Conversely, I just had a great new nickname idea for AfromanGT. I have no doubt it'll be as hilarious as the day you got married :roll: Calm down there, AlphamanGT. You're not impressing anyone with your chest puffed out like that. Gahhhh, tell me about it.
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Benjo
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:lol:
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notorganic wrote:Conversely, I just had a great new nickname idea for AfromanGT. Worst multi give-away ever.
WOLLONGONG WOLVES FOR A-LEAGUE EXPANSION!
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afromanGT
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Heineken wrote:notorganic wrote:Conversely, I just had a great new nickname idea for AfromanGT. Worst multi give-away ever. The fact that he's actually trotting around the forum posting with it is pretty pathetic.
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:lol: :lol:
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notorganic
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HAHA, as brilliant as it is, it's not me.
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KiwiChick1
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afromanGT wrote:Quote:There's a side of him that I really like, and another one that I really don't. I feel like I should give him more of a chance though. There's nothing wrong with giving the guy a chance. You're always the kind of person who wants to see the best in people. Why wouldn't you give him a chance? The worst thing that can happen is that your doubts are confirmed, and you lose nothing. You're an emotionally expressive person, and that's cool and all. But sometimes you don't have to care at all. Just go with the flow. Okay, I may as well go on another date with him then. I'm probably just overreacting.
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afromanGT
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KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:Quote:There's a side of him that I really like, and another one that I really don't. I feel like I should give him more of a chance though. There's nothing wrong with giving the guy a chance. You're always the kind of person who wants to see the best in people. Why wouldn't you give him a chance? The worst thing that can happen is that your doubts are confirmed, and you lose nothing. You're an emotionally expressive person, and that's cool and all. But sometimes you don't have to care at all. Just go with the flow. Okay, I may as well go on another date with him then. I'm probably just overreacting. What triggered all this off anyway?
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KiwiChick1
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afromanGT wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:afromanGT wrote:Quote:There's a side of him that I really like, and another one that I really don't. I feel like I should give him more of a chance though. There's nothing wrong with giving the guy a chance. You're always the kind of person who wants to see the best in people. Why wouldn't you give him a chance? The worst thing that can happen is that your doubts are confirmed, and you lose nothing. You're an emotionally expressive person, and that's cool and all. But sometimes you don't have to care at all. Just go with the flow. Okay, I may as well go on another date with him then. I'm probably just overreacting. What triggered all this off anyway? Don't worry, I just need to grow up about it.
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