Bullshit.

Your every instinct is telling you that there's something not right with this guy, and you're trying to justify why your instincts are wrong.

When you go on another date with him, please don't come back in here and say something like "is there anyone here that actually knows anything about relationships?" like you did last time.

Nobody else sees a problem, so it's just me being stupid about it.

I won't.

You're the only one that matters in this equation. What other people see is irrelevant.

Do what's right for you.

I don't know what's right for me, so I'm just going to go with it and hope for the best.

No matter what you do there's going to be something you find bad about it. But you can put the brakes on at any time so you may as well see whether the apprehension you have is founded or not.

Hopefully it's just all in my head.

Whether it is or isn't, the only way to find out is to put it to the test.

A Beta giving advice about an Alpha. I've heard it all now.

Just saw your name, fucking :lol:

Your his perfect partner then as he can, and will, decide for you. Hopefully you enjoy that sort of thing.

I'll go on another date like other people have recommended, and if I've still got a bad feeling then I'll break it off with him.

Good to hear, don't get into a relationship with someone because other people think you should.

That applies both ways. Don't break it off just because other people think you should either.

Correct.

Coming up on the next gripping, unmissable episode of AlphamanGT States The Obvious...

Well what the fuck am I meant to do then?

What I really want is for guys to stop wanting a relationship with me, but I can't exactly get that.

Stop showering.

But I still want people to talk to me :'(

My little summer fling has sparked up again!

It's pretty much me just being a dick, but it's fun :lol:

Thought you hated being 'forever alone'?

Just a quick recap to make sure I understand what is going on...

Kiwichick doesn't want to be alone, but doesn't want people to want to be in relationships with her. She doesn't want to be submissive, but also wants to give the megadouche that is basically forcing himself onto her the benefit of the doubt because he's "not such a bad guy". She doesn't want to, or at least give the impression that she is leading guys on, but is also dating two different guys at the same time "just to see how things go".

And women wonder why we think they're a bit complicated :lol:

Seems a fair summary of the situation from where I sit =d>

Oh fuck off.

Yeah, it's incredibly fucking easy to just sit there and laugh about it when it's not happening to you. Why don't I just have sex with every guy who so much as glances at me? Because according to everyone that's all they want anyway.

Personally I would employ the age old technique of 'Fuck it, make it up' works for me.

You seem to have a habit of overthinking things, big time. Since it seems you don't know either of these guys well, its not as though it's something big or going with something you've been thinking about for ages; wing it. Keep and open mind, and see if things work out to your liking.

"Winging it" does not fucking work for me.

You know what? Give it a rest. Where did this side of you come from?

You go on about how it sucks to be lonely (I know that feeling) but resent being 'liked'. Don't be surprised when the guys here become confused.

There are some people here genuinely trying to give you good advice, but some of your responses are filled with nothing but animosity.