FFT Gang Bang. :lol:

You won't be saying that when it starts to burn when you pee.

Is there anyone on here who identifies as asexual?

TSF.

Blacka?

Asexual =/= gay.

I think you confused asexual with hypersexual.

What brought about this bizarre question anyway?

.....

True asexuality is very, very rare.

Much more likely that you are:
A) Not at the age of your libido giving strong signals, most women hit their sexual "peak" in their early thirties.
B) Severely repressing some major kink due to your conservative upbringing, either consciously or subconsciously.
C) Still waiting to meet the type of guy/girl that turns you on.

1% of the population, I know it's not common, but it's not impossible.

:oops:

I don't know why but I read that as bisexual. :oops:

Edited by Roar_Brisbane: 26/5/2013 06:59:19 PM

Actually I thought you of all people wouldn't be so quick to shoot down other sexualities.

...anyway, if anyone does, let me know.

What makes you think I'm shooting anything down? Just a case of Occams Razor.

Also, http://www.asexuality.org/home/general.html might be a good read for you.

The bitch of it is that no one can really define sexual attraction very well. How are you meant to know what it is if you've never felt it?

Been having this really long interesting and amusing chats with a girl I met at a UN youth shindig. She'd amazingly attractive, smart, funny, fun, great conversation aaaaaaaaand she lives in Woolongong. Slight hiccup there.

Asexuality is possible however unlikely. However, in my unproffesional opinion, from the contents of this forum, I would say there is definitely a sexuality to you (not to be confused with asexuality), but that factors of socialisation, or perhaps lack thereof in some areas, in combination with not finding someone in the right circumstances, are probably in play here.

God damn, women are fucking bizarre.

The girl I got with on Friday night was an absolute stunner! Hooked up with her this time last year and hadn't seen her since, but I just happened to run into her at my local club again and we spent the night together, it was awesome! Sexiest smile and eyes out! I still reckon the best part was when she pulled her phone out and showed me her pole dancing album :lol:

Edited by Eastern Glory: 26/5/2013 11:17:31 PM

Can confirm. I've gone from casually flirting to drunk sex to sober sex to casual flirting back to mixed signals in the space of four days.

That's about normal for a drunk hook-up.

Well she's a Manchester United fan so it reeks of desperation on my part.

There's a difference between physical and sexual attraction. Is there any way I can find out for sure?

Put your dick in it.

Oh, you're not a guy :(

Well that's pretty much our litmus test rofl.

-PB

we were sure my brother-in-law was asexual for a few years. just showed no interest whatsoever in either sex.

however, along came a chick that is perfectly suited to him & they've been going strong for 6+months now.

like catbert said kc - judging by your previous posts, you're not asexual. you're just waiting for the right person. it's not anyones fault he/she hasn't come along yet - you're still extremely young. when you're rocking 40yearold virgin specs, then you'll know a bit better - as you would have had a lot more exposure to varying personalities of people, and you would have had more opportunity to act on any urges your sexuality would want to go for.

tbh it just sounds like you're too quick to want to brand yourself. i can just see you saying "ergh, that dude's a dick, i'm so over men right now, they're all assholes. wait a minute - if i don't want any men, and definately don't want women, does that mean i don't want anyone? hmm, must shoot mum a text asking what's for dinner. omg if i'm not attracted to anyone i might be #foreveralone". just give it time dude - it'll work itself out. don't draw sudden conclusions, don't try and brand yourself too quickly, just go with the flow. you'll find yourself, and potentially your soulmate (yeah, i believe in it) and one day you'll laugh at the fact that you considered you were asexual once.

or i've read into this all wrong, and you're going to come through with a "omg i wasn't even referring to myself, jeesh". but yeah, you get my point.


Edited by pv4: 27/5/2013 07:53:38 AM

It's not a case of "Omg I hate men because one particular guy wasn't very nice to me and so they must all be douchebags", it's the exact opposite. I've found an amazing guy, everything I could ever want and more, but the sexual attraction is just not there for me. I'm not turned on by him, even though I'd like to be.

Believe me, it's not something that I want to be, at all.

Poor bloke's in the deep end of the friendzone. :lol:

Sorry if it seemed like I was shooting you down, but while its possible that you are actually asexual, it's far far far more likely that you just haven't found that "thing" that floats your boat yet. You clearly have an interest, but you're finding that being able to relate or associate with your sexuality just yet is more tough.

It'll catch you by surprise one day, and then sometimes the fun is finding out in the first place.