krones3 wrote:This is a fantastic interview but it has crushed me and not inspired me. Many ppl on this forum know i have done all of these things including the youtube suggestion and te bobby skills test .I have trained a great many good football players and inspired them to love the game As a youth coach you get zero respect from the coaching family. Players with fantastic first touch are not forced to play at the highest level. Elite coaches of 12yr olds are making players do push ups. U8s are still doing laps and hill runs. teams i play are not graded therefore i win by unrealistic high margins week in week out.I will not train kids again afte this current crop (3yrs more) it seems to me the only way you can get your philosophy across is to train a successful seniors team.
The more things change the more they stay the same.:oops:
Mate, growing up I had only a couple of good coaches (& many ordinary ones) but the few good coaches inspire you & show you what the game is really about. It's like learning to speak another language.
Then next year you get an ordinary coach who doesn't speak the language. So you pretty much hold your breath & coach yourself until another good one comes along & can teach you things & further enlighten you. It can be a long time b/w drinks depending on how savvy your club is at picking coaches.
If you are teaching them skills & vision then your kids will be greatly encouraged when they put those things into practice on the field & find out that what you have taught them works & it is true.
I knew when a coach was good when he made sense, if he could explain things rationally. He was one of the few enlightened ones.
If he just ranted & raved I knew that he didn't have the answers. If you can explain why to do something, to those kids it will ring true. Kids arent stupid & they can tell a dud coach from a good one.
A good one makes it interesting & fun & challenges their thinking & teaches them skills to progress. I bet if you checked out what your past players are doing you will see that you have nourished & inspired them & given them a life-long love of the game.
How bloody cool is that??
I can sense your frustration but you are on the right track. You are part of the solution but remember you are just part, it is not about what you get but what you give.
You & coaches like you, light a spark in the lives of your young players.
These young guys will go on to become valuable players, fans & later valuable coaches here. They will have kids & pass on their love of the game to their own children.
Don't ever forget that. It is very important.
Imagine the negative effect if you no longer continued to do what you do??
Those kids need your guidance, they deserve it.
There are more of the new breed of coaches coming. The time is coming where you will be in the majority not the minority. Hold on & persevere because we need more coaches like you that speak the language, not less.
Edited by Damo Baresi: 30/3/2013 02:19:13 PM