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You Know What Really Grinds My Gears?

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In high school you're forced to pick your friends from a select group of people in order to be socially 'accepted'. Once you leave high school you've got THE WHOLE WORLD to choose from. 6.5bn people and counting.

It's all good.
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Also, funnily enough you bump into these bullies even a few years after school and they themselves have matured and some even openly regret their childish behaviour in school. Of course, some people are just bullies their entire lives.

I find that some of my better friends these days are people from high school that I never spoke to back then.
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catbert wrote:
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You've just gotta stop caring so much! Some dick at my school started a rumour that I was gay which pissed me off a fair bit, but then I realised why the fuck would I care? I had a girlfriend who knew I wasn't, my friends knew I wasn't, so given that the only people at the school I actually cared about knew the real story, I realised why the fuck would I care what people I don't care about thought!

Still, the rumour probably would have gone away quicker if I didn't suck so many dicks... (see, as afro said you can make a joke about anything)


Yeah but it's not so fucking funny WHEN IT'S TRUE.


They are trying to help you here, with ways to go about solving these problems. when you obviously don't want to go into detail but they still want to help they are probably going to miss a lot in terms of useable solutions.


I'm not asking for help or advice, because I don't expect people to understand the situation.
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Everything RJL says is true. The friends you make after high school are the ones you have for life, whhether or not you go to university. People become more politically and culturally orientated as they get into their 20s, and you find you begin to drift from high school friends as you all develop your own views of the world.

Also, funnily enough you bump into these bullies even a few years after school and they themselves have matured and some even openly regret their childish behaviour in school. Of course, some people are just bullies their entire lives.

Yeah its a shit feeling, but high school is really a formative time in your life. But more so are the 10 or so years after high school. You may not have the personal make up to shrug things off like some other people can, but believe us that there is an entire life and lifetime of friends after year 12. :)
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afromanGT wrote:
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After my final exam in year 12, we all went around one of my mates place, got drunk - stayed drunk till around Febuary when we had to start getting our shit together for uni

I'll never forget my mate getting to the door of his final exam and shot-gunning a beer as he walked out the door. :lol:


The room we were doing our exam in overlooked the street in front of the school. One of my mates was one of the first to finish, he walked out of the room, straight to his car, then proceded to rip a burnout right out in front while yelling out the window "PARTY AT MY HOUSE FUCKERS!"
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After my final exam in year 12, we all went around one of my mates place, got drunk - stayed drunk till around Febuary when we had to start getting our shit together for uni

I'll never forget my mate getting to the door of his final exam and shot-gunning a beer as he walked out the door. :lol:
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afromanGT wrote:
You don't end school miserably if you just go "fuck it" and take shit as it comes. PEople are a lot cooler then.


+1

After my final exam in year 12, we all went around one of my mates place, got drunk - stayed drunk till around Febuary when we had to start getting our shit together for uni





















then got drunk again
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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You've just gotta stop caring so much! Some dick at my school started a rumour that I was gay which pissed me off a fair bit, but then I realised why the fuck would I care? I had a girlfriend who knew I wasn't, my friends knew I wasn't, so given that the only people at the school I actually cared about knew the real story, I realised why the fuck would I care what people I don't care about thought!

Still, the rumour probably would have gone away quicker if I didn't suck so many dicks... (see, as afro said you can make a joke about anything)


Yeah but it's not so fucking funny WHEN IT'S TRUE.


They are trying to help you here, with ways to go about solving these problems. when you obviously don't want to go into detail but they still want to help they are probably going to miss a lot in terms of useable solutions.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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Yeah well I don't think it's funny, especially when it's true.

You're not very good at poker, are you? :lol:


Fine, I'll just keep pretending that none of it bothers me. At least I've learnt my lesson about trusting people.



You don't end school miserably if you just go "fuck it" and take shit as it comes. PEople are a lot cooler then.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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You've just gotta stop caring so much! Some dick at my school started a rumour that I was gay which pissed me off a fair bit, but then I realised why the fuck would I care? I had a girlfriend who knew I wasn't, my friends knew I wasn't, so given that the only people at the school I actually cared about knew the real story, I realised why the fuck would I care what people I don't care about thought!

Still, the rumour probably would have gone away quicker if I didn't suck so many dicks... (see, as afro said you can make a joke about anything)


Yeah but it's not so fucking funny WHEN IT'S TRUE.


Well, whatever it is mate, its happened! It's now part of who you are, people can't have positives in life without negatives in which they learned from! Anyone who claims they have never had problems in their life are liars, everyone has their crosses to bear KC, the strong people face up to them!

The most important thing is what YOU think, not what other kents think!
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RJL25 wrote:
You've just gotta stop caring so much! Some dick at my school started a rumour that I was gay which pissed me off a fair bit, but then I realised why the fuck would I care? I had a girlfriend who knew I wasn't, my friends knew I wasn't, so given that the only people at the school I actually cared about knew the real story, I realised why the fuck would I care what people I don't care about thought!

Still, the rumour probably would have gone away quicker if I didn't suck so many dicks... (see, as afro said you can make a joke about anything)


Yeah but it's not so fucking funny WHEN IT'S TRUE.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.


Oh ha ha ha, I have less than a month left of school, I have enough people talking about me behind my back, I don't need it to be worse.

You just gotta laugh it off and make a joke about it.

When I was in year 8 there was a rumour going around that I was home schooled. Yeah...about that...


It's not easy to just "laugh off" when it's about serious stuff.


You've just gotta stop caring so much! Some dick at my school started a rumour that I was gay which pissed me off a fair bit, but then I realised why the fuck would I care? I had a girlfriend who knew I wasn't, my friends knew I wasn't, so given that the only people at the school I actually cared about knew the real story, I realised why the fuck would I care what people I don't care about thought!

Still, the rumour probably would have gone away quicker if I didn't suck so many dicks... (see, as afro said you can make a joke about anything)
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RJL25 wrote:
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.


Oh ha ha ha, I have less than a month left of school, I have enough people talking about me behind my back, I don't need it to be worse.


Fuck KC who cares?

You do realise that in 1 months time when school is finished, YOUR NEVE GOING BACK TO THAT PLACE EVER AGAIN! The people there you will never see again! Chances are, even your friends there you won't even see after a year or so as your circle of friends will evolve as a result of meeting new people at work/uni/whatever.

Seriously out of my old school, there was 150+ people in my grade, I stay in regular contact with 5 of them, and just about everyone else I know are totally shocked and surprised that i'm still in contact with even that many! Most people stay in contact with 1 or 2 at the most!

Obviously there are facebook friends and shit, but sif they actually count as real friends...


I care because I was having a pretty fucking great year up until recently, and I'd hate to end school miserable.
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afromanGT wrote:
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Yeah well I don't think it's funny, especially when it's true.

You're not very good at poker, are you? :lol:


Fine, I'll just keep pretending that none of it bothers me. At least I've learnt my lesson about trusting people.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.


Oh ha ha ha, I have less than a month left of school, I have enough people talking about me behind my back, I don't need it to be worse.


Fuck KC who cares?

You do realise that in 1 months time when school is finished, YOUR NEVE GOING BACK TO THAT PLACE EVER AGAIN! The people there you will never see again! Chances are, even your friends there you won't even see after a year or so as your circle of friends will evolve as a result of meeting new people at work/uni/whatever.

Seriously out of my old school, there was 150+ people in my grade, I stay in regular contact with 5 of them, and just about everyone else I know are totally shocked and surprised that i'm still in contact with even that many! Most people stay in contact with 1 or 2 at the most!

Obviously there are facebook friends and shit, but sif they actually count as real friends...
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
Yeah well I don't think it's funny, especially when it's true.

You're not very good at poker, are you? :lol:
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Yeah well I don't think it's funny, especially when it's true.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.


Oh ha ha ha, I have less than a month left of school, I have enough people talking about me behind my back, I don't need it to be worse.

You just gotta laugh it off and make a joke about it.

When I was in year 8 there was a rumour going around that I was home schooled. Yeah...about that...


It's not easy to just "laugh off" when it's about serious stuff.

Sure it is. Just tell the most tasteless joke you can about it.

They accuse you of doing drugs "Yeah...just going to the bathroom now to shoot up, you wanna come?"
They accuse you of being pregnant "Well, not any more. Thank fuck for K-Mark coathangers."
They accuse you of being suicidal "Obviously I'm doing a pretty shit job. It's up the street, not across."

They give up when you say worse things than they could possibly think of.
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afromanGT wrote:
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.


Oh ha ha ha, I have less than a month left of school, I have enough people talking about me behind my back, I don't need it to be worse.

You just gotta laugh it off and make a joke about it.

When I was in year 8 there was a rumour going around that I was home schooled. Yeah...about that...


It's not easy to just "laugh off" when it's about serious stuff.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.


Oh ha ha ha, I have less than a month left of school, I have enough people talking about me behind my back, I don't need it to be worse.

You just gotta laugh it off and make a joke about it.

When I was in year 8 there was a rumour going around that I was home schooled. Yeah...about that...
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afromanGT wrote:
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.


Oh ha ha ha, I have less than a month left of school, I have enough people talking about me behind my back, I don't need it to be worse.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson about STD's.
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WGMG: I finally found a replacement HDD after my old external died. So I'm ripping the music off my ipod to the new HDD with "Music Rescue", which will do it for free but asks me if I want to pay every 50 songs. So I have to press "not yet" every 50 songs. For 14,000 fucking tracks.

"How many times is that afro?" Oh, about 280 FUCKING TIMES!
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WGMG: People telling other people stuff that I really really don't want spread around school.
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
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WGMG: Really sore throat.


Still hurting a lot. Gawd if I never have to have another gastroscopy it'll be too soon.


Frozen Coke! Biggest size you can get
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Wgmg : have a huge migraine and have a chest infection .
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LOTS OF ICE CREAM!
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KiwiChick1 wrote:
WGMG: Really sore throat.


Still hurting a lot. Gawd if I never have to have another gastroscopy it'll be too soon.
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This is Darwinism at work. Let her die.
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11.mvfc.11 wrote:
I wonder if we're related...


:-s
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I'm not stupid enough for that.

WGMG: Really sore throat.
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