+1 hahahahah

Dont offer to give them a gobbie.

(insert joke about kiwichick here)

or

You just have to sit there and cop shit for the week...

And also find comfort in the fact that its actually happening :p

:lol: Yeah.

Honestly bro, I can't believe she's just totally cracked it like this.

Give her a few days and see what she comes back with. I wonder what she would do if you changed your FB relationship status:-k

Nah, that's just being petulant. I'm not going to do anything. I'm not going to say a word. If she wants to come back and apologise she can. If I don't hear from her for like, over a week then I'll just break it off. I don't need this shit.

I just don't get it, at all. She can't just throw this all away over nothing... surely not.

Ive been with my women for 3 and a half years.

She farted on during our second time having sex. I was pussy whipped and let it happen.

Pretty hard to break the trend now :(

Why would a fart bother you?

If she was taking massive dumps on your chest you might have something to complain about.

Not if he's German.

Now that would be unpleasant.

If you like her, then don't wait for her to apologise first, because with some girls it'll never happen.

imno, if you're betting a relationship on a woman swallowing her pride and apologising, you're going to be single very soon.

No offence, but you don't know the whole situation here and I really cbf going through it all. Suffice to say, she said to me that she thinks getting with me was a mistake, so I'm not saying a fucking word until she apologises. Even then I probably shouldn't go back. But I do really like her.

But it's just so weird... she (and I) were so fucking happy. Everybody I talked to was amazed at how happy she was, smiling all the time, we spent time together and loved every minute. And then she has a day or two when she gets a little bit confused and emotional and then just decides she wants to throw it all away? It doesn't make any logical sense. So fuck it... if she realizes that I could be something great for her then she'll come back. If not, it's her loss. I'm not cocky and I don't think I'm an amazing person, but I do know that I made her happy and that my presence in her life was a positive influence. She will be worse off if she throws me away, irrefutably.

Yeah I'm aware I don't know the whole situation, but you're the one bringing it up on an internet forum etc so at least be open to comments you get back about it.

How long have you known this girl? How much do you know about her and her past and everything? Maybe she's having a rough time, maybe she's had bad experiences in the past. Yeah, sure it's not nice of her to push you away like that, but there could be more to it that you don't understand, or that she doesn't want you to see.

You really like her, so don't just leave her leave. Do you think you might be worse off you you throw her away too?

I know I'll be worse off. But this has nothing to do with me. It's nothing i can help or control.

She knows I'm here for her if she wants me. I've made that clear. I'm not going to try and push my way back into her life just after she's tried to push me out of it.

And I'm not the one walking away. I'm just standing where I am. She's walking away. I'm not going to move

I don't want to talk about it anymore here. Thanks for your suggestions.

Well then you're an idiot. It has everything to do with you. And doing anything at all is much better than doing nothing which is what your plan sounds like right now. So you met this amazing girl who you like heaps, and you're not going to even bother chasing her or trying to be with her after something happens. Sounds fantastic :roll: Hope that works out for you.

Do you actually realise how pathetic you sound?

TBH KiwiChick,as Imno mentioned, you don't know the full story. The split between them has come from a 'knee-jerk' reaction on her part. When she stops being a little immature bitch she can apologise and crawl back on her hands & knees. She needs to realise this isn't some school yard drama and needs to grow the fuck up.

Sorry for being so harsh imno :lol:

Tell me, have you got a girlfriend?

:lol:

I hate chicks that want to be chased and you always have to fight for your relationship.

It should be a 2 way street.

He could run after her and convince her to come back and make a solid argument that wins her over....for a time. But it'll happen again.

Yes I have, been together for just about a year.

Some girls are insecure. They want the guy to chase after them so they know that he does actually want them. Yeah it's stupid, but it doesn't last forever, and it's better than letting them go if you care about them.



And in that time have you ever apologised first to her, or chased after her? Or are you lucky enough to never have had to.

Maybe she came on here and realised you're a wanker ;)

I'm a bit of a twat all the time so my girlfriend would expect as such :P

Well we have had little 'tifs' along the way, but we are both quite understanding and realise the impact of our decisions on eachother. I know how I make my gf feel and I know that something serious woud have to happen for that to change. If something did change I would work to fix the issue, but I know that there would be a solid reason/event behind it.

Back to Imno's case, as he said, previously they were happy and then 1 or 2 days of her being emotionally insecure has made her bring the axe out. No solid reason, no warning, she isn't even opening up to what's wrong or why this has changed. Therefore, she can GAGF.

Maybe she'll open up in time, it could be something serious that she isn't really comfortable talking about. I just don't think it'd be a good idea letting her go. But hey, considering I'm single, what would I know?

I'm out so I'm going to wait until I get home to show just how wrong KC is.

Before me and my gf started dating we went through the 'annoying' I like you phase.

She would talk to another guy to make me jealous. My advice is play their game, I started flirting with any chick I saw. Soon enough statues were getting written about me. She got so jealous she gave up and wanted me more.

Never be a sappy c**t. You will lose as she has the power. So as I became a prick she loved me more. Women have that whole fear of losing a man thing.

Though don't always treat them like this. Its likely she'll leave once youre a fat hairy bastard and very little chance of you finding another haha.