If 2 has decided she's not interested in 1, that probably won't be changing any time soon. If you like her, then go for it.

I'm so happy and content after the break up, and I thought my Ex was too.. but she was acting really funny last night and apparently she's not ok with it. Weird... I was the one who was investing all the emotion/energy in it. :lol:

Lolwut. Sucked-in to the bitch ;) :p

Same applies then. He's had a crack and got turned down. She can't be off limits to everyone just because he has a crush on her.

Ok, so I have this coffee catch-up tomorrow, any suggestions?

Don't talk at length about stuff she's not interested in. And don't act nervous and fidgety

Got it. Was planning on getting her to talk about her more than myself.

Yeah girls will usually love talking about themselves and whatever it is they're into but you'll also need to show that you're interesting and worth going out with so don't forget that side of things

Edited by Krackovich: 18/12/2012 03:54:20 PM

Yeah, for sure. Cheers.

Oh, also, when you order your coffee don't get any skinny or soy or fancy sounding

:lol: Good advice.

good luck

Edited by Joffa: 18/12/2012 09:39:43 PM

Can confirm dick in a box will work

Going back to England on January 9th. Get attached to girl. /maxilogic.

How long are you back in England for though?

Pretty sure he is moving back, can't remember though as the convo was a fair while ago.

Oh, wow.
I remember him previously saying about going back to England, I just didn't realise it was permanently.

Edited by KiwiChick1: 19/12/2012 01:44:35 PM

Yeah, moving back. Will be gone for at least as long as it takes me to do uni. Probably longer.

This sucks. I absolutely fucking adore this girl and there's nothing I can do to stop me from leaving.

One of the girls I know maintained a long-distance relationship with a guy in england for 2 years before he moved over here.

It's coffee, what kind of tips can you possibly need? "FFT's guide to making a move"?

So a couple of weeks ago I hooked up with this chick, she's pretty damn hot, awesome personality and great taste in music... She's been messaging me a lot...not sure if this is the "run the hell away" signal.

Thing is I don't even know if I'll be coming back.

Neither did they. But they're engaged now.

How much do you mean when you say "a lot"? Is it like any inane bullshit that pops into her head? Or is it just that she's usually that one that will message first? If it's the first then, yeah, she might be crazy but if it's the second then she's probably just keen

I think that's what he was hoping for.

There's enough posts on my fb wall that a couple of other chicks have gone "who the hell is this bird" which I found hilarious because one of them was my ex :lol: She usually messages me something music-related and then we'll exchange messages for an hour or two.

:lol:

So in other words she's completely keen on you.

:lol: My insight into the female mind hasn't been great lately. She's damn hot so I'm kinda intimidated.

Yeah that sounds keen but without being insane

The female mind isn't something that's understood :lol: Just make a move on her already :P