catbert
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become rather infatuated with a great friend, which wouldn't be a problem, if it wasn't the fact she's going to Germany for a year next year (short term would not really be on the cards nor would I want to with the lady in question).
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Eastern Glory
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My best mate got with his recent ex 2 nights ago. She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude :lol: He's an absolute twat who's been after her for years and was openly talking shit about my mate when they dating.
After the events on 2 nights ago, I decided to post a link to Colgate Australia on my mate's wall and I know she saw it :lol:
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afromanGT
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Quote:She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude You mean this isn't the social norm? :lol: Seriously, I figured that was pretty standard.
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Eastern Glory
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afromanGT wrote:Quote:She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude You mean this isn't the social norm? :lol: Seriously, I figured that was pretty standard. She's only 18, and until quite recently was a bit of a prude. Really nice girl, but she's making a massive mistake with this guy. He's a total dick.
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afromanGT
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Eastern Glory wrote:afromanGT wrote:Quote:She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude You mean this isn't the social norm? :lol: Seriously, I figured that was pretty standard. She's only 18, and until quite recently was a bit of a prude. Really nice girl, but she's making a massive mistake with this guy. He's a total dick. "What all men want is a virgin who doesn't yet realise she's a whore". She's going to make mistakes at first. Give her 2-3 years to sort her shit out and she'll go off.
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Eastern Glory
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afromanGT wrote:Eastern Glory wrote:afromanGT wrote:Quote:She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude You mean this isn't the social norm? :lol: Seriously, I figured that was pretty standard. She's only 18, and until quite recently was a bit of a prude. Really nice girl, but she's making a massive mistake with this guy. He's a total dick. "What all men want is a virgin who doesn't yet realise she's a whore". She's going to make mistakes at first. Give her 2-3 years to sort her shit out and she'll go off. Right now, that's her to a tee.
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afromanGT
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Eastern Glory wrote:afromanGT wrote:Eastern Glory wrote:afromanGT wrote:Quote:She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude You mean this isn't the social norm? :lol: Seriously, I figured that was pretty standard. She's only 18, and until quite recently was a bit of a prude. Really nice girl, but she's making a massive mistake with this guy. He's a total dick. "What all men want is a virgin who doesn't yet realise she's a whore". She's going to make mistakes at first. Give her 2-3 years to sort her shit out and she'll go off. Right now, that's her to a tee. I know her type. I'm dealing with one at the moment. She's 18 and just realised how much she loves the D and she's been screwing this guy under "ZEA rules" (Zero Emotional Attachment), but he's starting to get attached. She's not good at taking the advice she just asked for either :lol: She's pretty cute and has a great body (solid 8/10) but being a teenage girl her personality makes her a 6 :lol: I keep telling her "Honey, you're gorgeous but you keep talking and reminding me why I don't do younger girls" - the look on her face is always fantastic, being torn between self satisfaction and confusion at being both complimented and insulted in the same sentence.
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afromanGT
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So I was watching/evesdropping on this couple earlier tonight while eating dinner and the girl kept banging on about her ex. The guy asked her about him, which is a fatal error in itself, but here's a helpful tip kids: Never, EVER mention your ex. Even if you're asked.
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paulbagzFC
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Eastern Glory wrote:afromanGT wrote:Quote:She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude You mean this isn't the social norm? :lol: Seriously, I figured that was pretty standard. She's only 18, and until quite recently was a bit of a prude. Really nice girl, but she's making a massive mistake with this guy. He's a total dick. Meh. So she's fallen in love with getting male attention by sucking people off. She will learn. -PB
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afromanGT wrote:Eastern Glory wrote:afromanGT wrote:Eastern Glory wrote:afromanGT wrote:Quote:She performed the art of felatio on him for a significant amount of time and as of today she started dating a different dude You mean this isn't the social norm? :lol: Seriously, I figured that was pretty standard. She's only 18, and until quite recently was a bit of a prude. Really nice girl, but she's making a massive mistake with this guy. He's a total dick. "What all men want is a virgin who doesn't yet realise she's a whore". She's going to make mistakes at first. Give her 2-3 years to sort her shit out and she'll go off. Right now, that's her to a tee. I know her type. I'm dealing with one at the moment. She's 18 and just realised how much she loves the D and she's been screwing this guy under "ZEA rules" (Zero Emotional Attachment), but he's starting to get attached. She's not good at taking the advice she just asked for either :lol: She's pretty cute and has a great body (solid 8/10) but being a teenage girl her personality makes her a 6 :lol: I keep telling her "Honey, you're gorgeous but you keep talking and reminding me why I don't do younger girls" - the look on her face is always fantastic, being torn between self satisfaction and confusion at being both complimented and insulted in the same sentence.  -PB
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Benjo
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Bowden
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Bahahahahaha :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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pv4
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Funky Munky
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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rusty
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KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:I find it interesting that there is this perception that virginity is almost a bad thing. If you still one, then you almost or pretty much frowned upon. Except if you're a girl :lol: Thats true, then you just loose. Don't worry about it Zim, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin :) Don't listen to her Zim, if there's a single universal truth it's that girls like sexually mature experienced men who know how to "work it" in the bed room. They don't like virgins at all other than for unloading all their emotional baggage onto and using them to rebuild their self esteem after they've been treated badly. My advice is to lose it as quickly as possible, and after you've lost it you will realise it wasn't worth keeping in the first place.
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Fucking brilliant.
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KiwiChick1
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rusty wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:I find it interesting that there is this perception that virginity is almost a bad thing. If you still one, then you almost or pretty much frowned upon. Except if you're a girl :lol: Thats true, then you just loose. Don't worry about it Zim, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin :) Don't listen to her Zim, if there's a single universal truth it's that girls like sexually mature experienced men who know how to "work it" in the bed room. They don't like virgins at all other than for unloading all their emotional baggage onto and using them to rebuild their self esteem after they've been treated badly. My advice is to lose it as quickly as possible, and after you've lost it you will realise it wasn't worth keeping in the first place. ...I hope you're joking.
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rusty
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KiwiChick1 wrote:rusty wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:I find it interesting that there is this perception that virginity is almost a bad thing. If you still one, then you almost or pretty much frowned upon. Except if you're a girl :lol: Thats true, then you just loose. Don't worry about it Zim, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin :) Don't listen to her Zim, if there's a single universal truth it's that girls like sexually mature experienced men who know how to "work it" in the bed room. They don't like virgins at all other than for unloading all their emotional baggage onto and using them to rebuild their self esteem after they've been treated badly. My advice is to lose it as quickly as possible, and after you've lost it you will realise it wasn't worth keeping in the first place. ...I hope you're joking. Yeah sorry I shall leave male sexuality issues to teenybopper experts like yourself. Edited by rusty: 25/9/2013 12:30:47 PM
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Scoll
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rusty once more talking out of his arse and dismissing the notion that people are individuals with discrete wants and needs :lol:
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Getting laid is a collective overt want and need, there's nothing discrete about it.
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Eastern Glory
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Holy shit! Pauly well in :lol:
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PB that's absolutely done me :lol: :lol: =d>
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Scoll
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rusty wrote:Getting laid is a collective overt want and need, there's nothing discrete about it. You are conflating your own personal and social experiences that define your perception of sexuality with universal truth. The problem with your claim is it is significantly hard to prove but ridiculously easy to disprove: I may be a sexually active male, but I don't care whether the next time I have sex is tonight or ten years from now. I neither want it or need it. The idea that losing ones virginity is wholly important is only true insofar as to perpetuate personally held opinions onto others to validate their influence on your own life. Some people are highly driven by sex, some are not. Refuted. NB: If you actually knew enough women (and well enough) to be considered a substantive representation of the community, you would be aware that there is an equally commonly held sense of value on romance and foreplay as to the act of sex itself that shoots down your "universal truth", and you certainly wouldn't be foolish enough to make a broad-based claim on the motives of women then dismiss the views of the only woman in the conversation.
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rusty wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:zimbos_05 wrote:I find it interesting that there is this perception that virginity is almost a bad thing. If you still one, then you almost or pretty much frowned upon. Except if you're a girl :lol: Thats true, then you just loose. Don't worry about it Zim, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin :) Don't listen to her Zim, if there's a single universal truth it's that girls like sexually mature experienced men who know how to "work it" in the bed room. They don't like virgins at all other than for unloading all their emotional baggage onto and using them to rebuild their self esteem after they've been treated badly. My advice is to lose it as quickly as possible, and after you've lost it you will realise it wasn't worth keeping in the first place. Yeah, probably not going to listen to that advice purely because of my beliefs.
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afromanGT
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rusty wrote:Getting laid is a collective overt want and need, there's nothing discrete about it. sure there is. Discretion being the height of valor and all. I think you've confused "overt desire" and "underlying primordial instinct". rusty, I hear iOS7 protects your products from water damage so why don't you do us all a favour and chuck them in the bath.
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:lol: rusty that is a horrible view to have, and not true in a general sense at all.
Every person is different, every person has their own opinions.
My last two girlfriends (one is now my wife): - one felt a bit overawed, out of her depth, not sure what she was getting in to, by how sexually experienced/mature I was - one was totally into it, couldn't believe we could go from foreplay to omg-how-did-he-get-that-condom-on-without-the-awkward-pause-and-stop-that-usually-happens-before-sex-and-without-me-noticing
Zim - be your own person, do what you want when you want. If you find the right girl for you to do the right thing with - she'll be accepting of you regardless of your sexual experience/maturity. It's got absolutely nothing to do with how anyone else perceives you
Edited by pv4: 25/9/2013 03:19:31 PM
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rusty
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Scoll wrote:rusty wrote:Getting laid is a collective overt want and need, there's nothing discrete about it. You are conflating your own personal and social experiences that define your perception of sexuality with universal truth. The problem with your claim is it is significantly hard to prove but ridiculously easy to disprove: I may be a sexually active male, but I don't care whether the next time I have sex is tonight or ten years from now. I neither want it or need it. The idea that losing ones virginity is wholly important is only true insofar as to perpetuate personally held opinions onto others to validate their influence on your own life. Some people are highly driven by sex, some are not. Refuted. NB: If you actually knew enough women (and well enough) to be considered a substantive representation of the community, you would be aware that there is an equally commonly held sense of value on romance and foreplay as to the act of sex itself that shoots down your "universal truth", and you certainly wouldn't be foolish enough to make a broad-based claim on the motives of women then dismiss the views of the only woman in the conversation. All normal functioning people are driven by sex, some more than others but the desire to breed isn't a choice it's an innately programmed need. There is a cluster of personality disorders in which the sufferer does not have any need for sexual gratification, but I framing "universal truth" in the context of a person who is socially and psychologically normal, and has normal biological and hormonal functioning. The problem with your claim is you do care whether you have sex now or in ten years, the conscious want can't override the base instinctual need for sex. Sex is healthy and it's medically proven people who are having regular are happier and this spills into other areas of their lives giving them a holistic sense of well being, and those who aren't getting any are more prone to depression and anxiety. The biological basis for "virginity" is completely absurd but it can be important in a psychological and cultural sense as it interplays with themes such as masculinity, power, self esteem and social acceptance, justly or otherwise. Our self image and worth isn't entirely internally driven and is shaped by social expectations of our gender roles and whether our lifestyles conform with those values we place on those respective roles. It can also be important in a sexual sense as experience is necessary for skills and competence and this can improve the value of our relationships and the romantic, pair bonding experiences.
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rusty
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afromanGT wrote:rusty wrote:Getting laid is a collective overt want and need, there's nothing discrete about it. sure there is. Discretion being the height of valor and all. I think you've confused "overt desire" and "underlying primordial instinct". There's nothing underlying about a boner, and we've all had those. Edited by rusty: 25/9/2013 03:29:57 PM
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afromanGT
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All rusty's latest post tells me is that he's using words he doesn't understand the meaning of.
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Funky Munky
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rusty wrote:afromanGT wrote:rusty wrote:Getting laid is a collective overt want and need, there's nothing discrete about it. sure there is. Discretion being the height of valor and all. I think you've confused "overt desire" and "underlying primordial instinct". There's nothing underlying and indiscrete about a boner, and we've all had those. Even Kiwichick?
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