Cheers bro, that is perfect advice.

Nah, I have a boy and two girls :lol:

not being divorced or older than 25, my personal advice wouldn't help a ridiculous amount, but i will put my two bobs in.

my sister was left by her husband via text message. she's 37years old (she's technically my half-sister, but our family don't look at it like that). i've had a good obersvation on how she reacted to it all, how her friends who are similar aged are leading their lives & how they react to their own personal problems. let me start by saying this - once my sister became single, and also a few of her friends are now divorced-turned-single, they're all ridiculously off the chain crazy. mental. have no issue abandoning their kids with the grandparents/uncle (aka me)/friends/etc for whole weekends, multiple weekends in a row. my sister didn't see her kids on the weekend for the entire of august - and her friends were in a similar boat. every guy she's seen since being divorced, also has kids. they've never met each others respective children - it's easier to not meet the guys kids as most of the guys kids are in custody of their mothers. they're only interested in re-living their teens/20s years, because they feel their path they took was done wrong. my sister and her friends are embarassingly mental nowadays. they actually rep that they're cougars, and love nothing more than to head to cougar pubs.

if you're interested in that sort of lifestyle for a while, leave the kids right out of it. all of my sisters friends and my sister want nothing to do with that level of personal life until well into the thing - they're all interested in having fun. they just like to talk to guys who are open for a conversation, seem approachable, don't mind shouting a drink or two, etc. if you're subconciously after a mother v2 (aka you're looking at women who you can introduce to the relatives), stay well away from these chicks. if you thought during your teen/20s/single years that bitches be crazy, wait till you get a load of these bitches. they're cray cray. they're unpredictable, unreadable & batshit wild. they're super dumb also.

if i were you, i'd just do my thang. be my own person, live a relatively social life (aka hanging with friends who can introduce you to new people etc) while still being a super dad, and something will fall into place.

Not if the lucky lady has 2 boys and a girl. :d Makes the sond harder to sing, but otherwise...
Just make sure that, unlike the real Brady Bunch kids, they don't end up dating each other. :-"

Edited by f1worldchamp: 6/11/2012 02:42:13 PM

Not interested in that scene at all, I have seen a few the same as you describe - but I have shared custody of my kids, week on week off, and there is no way I am not seeing them on the weekends I have them.

Not interested in mum v2 at the moment, just more someone who is cool to hang around and shares some interests - kids are optional, age is not something that stresses me (though past the 10 year difference it gets a bit wierd). I have a few female friends who fit the bill with out the potential hang ups that a physical relationship can bring.

There is always someone you meet out of the blue though and that is what has prompted me to get some impartial opinions about my situation.

Yeah, that would be a little too creepy...

Going to coffee with the cute girl from uni next week :)

Forum, NB: not 'a cute girl', 'the cute girl' - there's only one cute girl attending the entire university in Perth.

Condolences, Shaker.

You can't expect too much of Perth :P

It's not like they have the sexual enthusiasm of the 4 hot chicks from NZ either :lol:

If New Zealanders call there Decks a Dick what to they call there Dicks, Decks?

Sorry passing thought, had to share.

Deck -> Dick
Dick -> Duck
Duck -> Dock

Any news?

Pfft, most of our accents really aren't that strong!

Seriously though, good for you Benjo :)

My aunt's accent is that strong. It's pretty funny.

Do you have much family over in New Zealand?

Two uncles and an aunt and about 7 cousins.

You just about have more extended family in New Zealand than me :lol:

Nice one Benjo, hope it all goes good for you (Y)

After meeting Kruse_Terrace in Sydney, I can officially say that I am thoroughly surprised he gets laid at all. :P

There are girls out there with a jockey fetish, clearly.

*aspergers' & micropenis.

;)

Tried the whole casual arrangment, wasn't really my thing.

How so?

well, it could have been i just didnt find the chick that attractive, but, generally, it wasnt very enjoyable, lacking something.

They say that a woman has to feel loved to have sex, and that a man has to have sex to feel loved. So the basic act of continuing the species requires a lie from one of you.

I thought it was that women use sex to get love, and men use love to get sex.

They're both retarded generalisations, really.

*shrug* I was paraphrasing Billy Connolly.

I had a similar thing going last year and it didn't end well, she was fit but she was a fucking head case, I could stand the whole crazy in the head crazy in bed thing initially but the crazy became intolerable. Not to mention she'd fucked way too many of my friends throughout this time, it just got intolerably weird and fizzled out naturally/she continued whoring around and I kept my distance.