Sorry to hear mate :(

Is there anyone that wouldn't mind having a conversation about relationships with me? I just need a different perspective on a couple of things and I don't want to feel like the whole forum is laughing at me.

Sure, but I will be honest.

Yeah go on. Don't expect to stroke your ego though.

Man I enjoy this thread, reminds me of high school bullshit so much. :lol:

So Friday I ran into a girl who was a couple of years below me at school, Mega babe of her grade. We'd never spoken before Friday, but she was standing with a mate of mine when I started talking to him. All of a sudden she chimes in, every time I try to go back to talking to my mate she cuts me off. So eventually I take the hint and we start to chat. I go to the bar with h and her grenade, and I get them shots... The grenade suddenly says she can't see and just sits down. Security comes over and grabs her, the hot girl and me smash the shots, and then I help the security guard take the grenade down stairs and outside the bar. We all sit out there for ages and the hot girl and I chat a bit cos the other girl is mega groggy. Eventually I get them in a taxi and they leave.

All of a sudden the hot girl is messaging me on Facebook thanking me for everything, and the grenade adds me on FB and thanks me too. The hot girl proceeds to message me all the next morning and we talk about lots of random stuff, some of it quite flirty, and she develops a little nickname for me that I hate. She then says "I hope I can see you again soon, so I can call you that haha"... Anyway, after my equally joking reply, the conversation died and we Haven't spoken since. She agreed to come out for my mates birthday with me on Friday, but I'm not 100% convinced that I should message her and reignite the chat or if I should just wait...

This whole situation wouldn't be so confusing but for the fact that I never planned on having anything to do with this girl, because she always seemed a little bit snobby to everyone at school, but she was super nice on Friday and Saturday morning.

/Essay question

She probably realised that nobody in the real world gives a fuck how popular she was in high school.

Agreed, most people that fit that description that I went to school with either saw the writing on the wall and grew the fuck up, or are living a pretty insular and sad life in the real world now.

I don't think she had that bad a rep but the whole thing is just a little weird. Just spoke to her now, she isn't coming out Friday.

Interest is over.

If you are interested in seeing what happens, leave her alone. Either she isn't interested or your lack of interest is going to make her chase you. Being chased is nice.

Only just read this, what a crock of shit. Who ever said that actually means: I am insecure and selfish.

Change a few words and that explains my current situation to an extent :lol:

Double date?
:lol:

Shit day huh?

A few weeks back I was chatting a fair bit with this chick who organises some of the live music in my bar. She seemed really cool and then I got swamped by work and kinda forgot about her. Ran into her tonight and she spent the first hour avoiding talking to me :lol: May have messed something up there. She's a solid 8.5/10 too.

Re: EG's little quandary, you do need to remember that she was inebriated. If she's interested at all you'll get another chance at some point.

Damn man, never want to fuck up an 8.5... Oh well

Yeah, she had only had 5 or so drinks, but point taken. It didn't surprise me that I was with her all night, what surprised me was the next morning. I'm not going to talk to her, I'll just see what happens next I run into her. Wouldn't bother me if I never spoke to her again, but 9/10 would smash if the chance was there.

Would smash?

Violence against women, Australia says no.

-PB

What is she consents?

Surprising behaviour for someone whose bedroom walls are covered in "Hatamoto, police and Joffa fanboy posters". :-k

Violence against women: Australia says 'only if it's funny'.

My ex called me to tell me she should never have left, ship sailed dear. Still made me feel pretty shit.

My ex did that a day after my Dad died. Was really not in the mood to bother about it then :lol:

That's rough brother. But good on your for sticking to your convictions on that one.

Protip: Only ask your female friend out if you're willing to not be a dick about her rejecting you.

Young people (esp young men) have real issues differentiating "I want to ask this person out because we are good friends" and "I will become friends with this person because I want to ask them out". Which is why the whole friendzone-woe-is-me trend is absolute bullshit, if you are actually friends you don't need to be in a relationship. If you expect that being friends should grant you a free pass into a relationship you aren't really a friend in the first place, you are just attempting a painfully slow wooing by deceit.

:lol: Scoll don't give away the male gender's greatest secret! The friend-zone is the place where only the worst girls on the planet send undeserving men who just wanna cuddle them and talk about puppies.

rough to hear mate. atb

Ugh. It sucks.

BRUGS (bro hugs) FOR YOU, GOOD SIR

:lol: did he seriously bitch about being rejected (aka friendzone whinge)?