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			    afromanGT wrote:Girls who "txt lyk dis". Another massive turnoff. If you send me a message like that I'm not replying :lol:  yes!! for some reason my biggest hate in regards to texting is women, or anyone, using the word "yer". I harrassed my mrs in the early days of us texting and said I'd never reply to a text featuring "yer", and would only accept "yeah", "yes" or "si"                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    pv4 wrote:afromanGT wrote:Girls who "txt lyk dis". Another massive turnoff. If you send me a message like that I'm not replying :lol:  yes!! for some reason my biggest hate in regards to texting is women, or anyone, using the word "yer". I harrassed my mrs in the early days of us texting and said I'd never reply to a text featuring "yer", and would only accept "yeah", "yes" or "si"  Substituting a "d" for "th" also does my head in.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    pv4 wrote:afromanGT wrote:Girls who "txt lyk dis". Another massive turnoff. If you send me a message like that I'm not replying :lol:  yes!! for some reason my biggest hate in regards to texting is women, or anyone, using the word "yer". I harrassed my mrs in the early days of us texting and said I'd never reply to a text featuring "yer", and would only accept "yeah", "yes" or " si"  :lol:                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    afromanGT wrote:pv4 wrote:afromanGT wrote:Girls who "txt lyk dis". Another massive turnoff. If you send me a message like that I'm not replying :lol:  yes!! for some reason my biggest hate in regards to texting is women, or anyone, using the word "yer". I harrassed my mrs in the early days of us texting and said I'd never reply to a text featuring "yer", and would only accept "yeah", "yes" or "si"  Substituting a "d" for "th" also does my head in.  trud                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    pv4 wrote:afromanGT wrote:pv4 wrote:afromanGT wrote:Girls who "txt lyk dis". Another massive turnoff. If you send me a message like that I'm not replying :lol:  yes!! for some reason my biggest hate in regards to texting is women, or anyone, using the word "yer". I harrassed my mrs in the early days of us texting and said I'd never reply to a text featuring "yer", and would only accept "yeah", "yes" or "si"  Substituting a "d" for "th" also does my head in.  trud   -PB                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    RedKat wrote:Id more judge her on what the hands playing the guitar are like
  Yeah thats one of the weirder things I 'check out' in a chick  I like guys with nice hands, but it isn't really a big deal for me.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    RedKat wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:RedKat wrote:Id more judge her on what the hands playing the guitar are like
  Yeah thats one of the weirder things I 'check out' in a chick  I like guys with nice hands, but it isn't really a big deal for me.   yeah its more of a 'theyre hot and their hands are nice.' not a 'theyre hot because they have nice hands.' That said Ive never met a guy or girl thats my age or older with smaller hands than me.   You're 18? I will accept that challenge :lol:                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    RedKat wrote:The amount of times Ill be out with friends, a mate will pay out my hands, a chick will go 'but my hands are tiny look' and we'll align hands to find that their fingers are still considerably bigger is too dam high!  Well I'm always being told I have small hands, so I guess if I make an away trip next season we'll have to test it out :lol:                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    RedKat wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:RedKat wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:RedKat wrote:Id more judge her on what the hands playing the guitar are like
  Yeah thats one of the weirder things I 'check out' in a chick  I like guys with nice hands, but it isn't really a big deal for me.   yeah its more of a 'theyre hot and their hands are nice.' not a 'theyre hot because they have nice hands.' That said Ive never met a guy or girl thats my age or older with smaller hands than me.   You're 18? I will accept that challenge :lol:  The amount of times Ill be out with friends, a mate will pay out my hands, a chick will go 'but my hands are tiny look' and we'll align hands to find that their fingers are still considerably bigger is too dam high! But back on love issues.   Fun fact: Penis and hand size are proportionate.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    Keep telling yourself that.                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    New one on the scene.  She's always been keen on me, so i reckon it should be a walk in the park.
  The catch, she can be a head case sometimes. not as bad as she used to be, but still a bit fucked in the head. So i'm looking to keep is casual, but i'm not convinced she'll see it the same way :lol:                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    I don't even know how to be a girlfriend lol.                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote:I don't even know how to be a girlfriend lol.   Bro do you even girlfriend?                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    afromanGT wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:I don't even know how to be a girlfriend lol.   Bro do you even girlfriend?  Badly it seems. Trying not to bitch about my relationship though :lol:                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    11.mvfc.11 wrote:In the first weekend of being single I almost got the belt. Things looking good.  Atta boy. Sounds like a couple of more shots would have done the bird nicely                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    Eastern Glory wrote:11.mvfc.11 wrote:In the first weekend of being single I almost got the belt. Things looking good.  Atta boy. Sounds like a couple of more shots would have done the bird nicely  You'd be surprised :lol: Shots usually end up with her being too drunk to do anything. My old boss had a nasty habit of that.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    afromanGT wrote:Eastern Glory wrote:11.mvfc.11 wrote:In the first weekend of being single I almost got the belt. Things looking good.  Atta boy. Sounds like a couple of more shots would have done the bird nicely  You'd be surprised :lol: Shots usually end up with her being too drunk to do anything. My old boss had a nasty habit of that.  I only said a couple :lol:  That said, is it still rape if she doesn't remember it? :-k 8-[ :-#  Edited by Eastern Glory: 12/6/2013 12:05:49 AM                
			    				
			                        
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    Eastern Glory wrote:That said, is it still rape if she doesn't remember it? :-k 8-[ :-#   Yes.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    Scoll wrote:Eastern Glory wrote:That said, is it still rape if she doesn't remember it? :-k 8-[ :-#   Yes.                    
			    				
			                        
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    pv4 wrote:Scoll wrote:Eastern Glory wrote:That said, is it still rape if she doesn't remember it? :-k 8-[ :-#   Yes.                      
			    				
			                        
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    If you're thinking about breaking up with someone, then it means you probably should, right?                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote:If you're thinking about breaking up with someone, then it means you probably should, right?  Not always. A good relationship for me is one where you can fight off that temptation to break up with them to sort out whats' bugging you about them. Talk to them, tell them "hey, I don't like that you're doing ..... .... ...., I need a bit more ... ... ..." If you still have that thought even after trying to fix it, then sure, dump the bugger.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    AJohn wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:If you're thinking about breaking up with someone, then it means you probably should, right?  Not always. A good relationship for me is one where you can fight off that temptation to break up with them to sort out whats' bugging you about them. Talk to them, tell them "hey, I don't like that you're doing ..... .... ...., I need a bit more ... ... ..." If you still have that thought even after trying to fix it, then sure, dump the bugger.  I'm not even sure what's wrong though, so I don't really know how to fix it. I don't know, I'm so confused.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    Lol okay.                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    RedKat wrote:If you cant pinpoint what it is thats wrong then its probably you just feeling uncomfortable being in unchartered territory and trying to get things back into your comfort zone. Stick it out for a bit more Id say.   How long do I wait? There are lots of little things, it's just that none of them are his fault.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    RedKat wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:RedKat wrote:If you cant pinpoint what it is thats wrong then its probably you just feeling uncomfortable being in unchartered territory and trying to get things back into your comfort zone. Stick it out for a bit more Id say.   How long do I wait? There are lots of little things, it's just that none of them are his fault.   Depends what they are are how much theyre annoying you. And as I said in the first post its worth asking yourself with each one if its a problem or something youre making into a problem because youre evidently, and understandably, uncomfortable being in your first relationship where you arent sure how to act and whats expected of you  Ugh. I'm too confused.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    by the sounds of it though this lad is quite nice, so try not to knee jerk anything.
  On my front getting far too infatuated with that girl from Wollongong, spent 5 hours chatting and I barely noticed a moment go past.                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    catbert wrote:by the sounds of it though this lad is quite nice, so try not to knee jerk anything.
  On my front getting far too infatuated with that girl from Wollongong, spent 5 hours chatting and I barely noticed a moment go past.  Happens to us all bro. Me and my girlfriend stayed up till 8am talking about anything and didn't notice the time go by months before our first kiss together.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    catbert wrote:by the sounds of it though this lad is quite nice, so try not to knee jerk anything.  He's a lovely guy, so I'm trying not to screw things up like I usually do.                
			    				
			                        
                             
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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			    Don't break up with him. What's the point of a relationship if every doubt makes you consider calling it off? 
  Think of a relationship as building something from the bottom up, there is always more to be done and more to be fixed. If you look at it as a complete thing, then all you're ever doing to do is look for damage and not be satisfied, as you feel there's no progress to be made.  Hang in there, and look for a way to fix the problem, not avoid it.                
			    				
			                         
                            
                                    
                 
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
                         
            
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