Who knows

Which ones specifically?

Oh yes, she's had one. It wasn't hers but she's had one.

Sup, what would you like to diagnose me with?

I reckon you would like go off like a frog in a sock

Love Afro not acknowledging his meme :lol:

what's to acklowledge? I'm not going to dignify something so base.

I have no idea what that means :lol:

Farkinggggg rofllllll

First paragraph and already in trying to disagree you've ceded my point that it is not a universal truth, trying to hide those who don't adhere to your view in the category of abnormal (subhuman!)

Secondly, you should really take a long hard look at yourself if you are equating aspects of sexuality that differ from your own as disorders. Asexuality is not a disorder, just as hyper-sexuality is not a disorder (or even, tangentially, homosexuality and bisexuality.) Everyone fits on a vast spectrum of sexuality, and it is no less right to not be driven by the urge to mate. You may believe it abnormal, but it is not evidence based fact (and the prominence of differing sexualities significantly discredits the theory.)

Thirdly, you cannot prescribe your own values on a community that do not hold to them. For instance, zimbo's culture dictates that abstinence is important and, thus, women who are a part of his culture do not expect their new husbands to be Ron Jeremy in the sack and that is OK. He (and they) should not be shamed for how they want to live their lives by someone prescribing their own absolutes about sexual function.


No, I don't. Don't pretend to have more of a grasp on what drives me than I do. It insults me, and makes you look like a closed-minded fool.

Studies have shown that orgasms produce hormones that elicit a positive response in the brain. However, studies are not empirically absolute on absence of sex leading to mental disorders such as depression and anxiety. There is correlation, but any academic worth their salt (or other component compounds) knows that correlation does not equal causation. It is far more likely that absence of sexual activity increases the likelihood of depression and anxiety in sexual and hyper-sexual individuals but there is no evidence that it holds for all people.

I at no point have suggested that sex is unhealthy, or that anyone should be shamed by losing their virginity. My argument is you should not be stigmatised for not valuing sex or, indeed, valuing your virginity. Following that point is that there are many, many people who do not value sex as highly as you do. You should not be shamed for this, but nor should they be told they are abnormal. They are as normal as you are.

"If your last name is hymen, probably dont name your child after an adjective.
'How about misty?'
'Wont that be kind of mean?'
'Her brother rusty doesnt seem to mind.'"

Tinder, single dudes... Get on that shit!

I'm not into Internet dating, but I was just messing around on it and wow...well worth it

Tell us non-single dudes more

I was actually reading up on Tinder the other day, it sounds like an elegant approach to the dating-help market.

For the uninitiated, you fire up the app and it will show you someone in a pre-defined distance (though no exact location) You see a photo(s?) and some basic info about them (basically the same level as a dating site/FB info page)- if you like them you swipe one way, if you don't you swipe the other. If you swipe to like and they swipe to like you, you can chat to each other and meet up if you so decide.

Digital-assisted dating takes a bit of the charm out of taking a punt on just talking to someone, but that aside Tinder is one of the better implementations.

It's pretty good just to have a flick through and have a bit of a perv really :lol:

Yeah, casual as, and you can see your mutual friends on Facebook. It's all a bit of fun, but I know a guy who's done very, very well for himself out of it ;)

That's good the way they tell you mutual friends on facebook. Makes it easier to ignore them :lol:

Just realised that it's just a re-hash of how Zuckerberg first launched facebook back in college.

Pretty much hey!

That said, you can work out a bit about them very quickly just by who the mutual friends are

I just love seeing regular patrons that I never bothered to learn the names of :lol:

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand back to being single. Time to eat my weight in chocolate.

I never understood this philosophy of eating chocolate when you break up with someone. Like...how does diabetes make you feel better?

Comfort food. Chocolate gives you endorphins. How long does it take to get over feeling shit about it?

And please tell me that the waning him back stage will end. How long is an acceptable time to feel sorry for yourself for?

No set time. You just move on when the time is right.

How long were you with the dude?

-PB

About that long.

Roughly 5 months. I know that isn't really that long, but it's the first real relationship I've ever been in, and we were really really close.

Cheers afro, but alcohol and I don't mix very well anymore.

Sorry to hear that.

Was the breakup due to his comments about your weight?

-PB

Nah. It had been going badly for a while because we've both got issues that we need to deal with, but despite me helping him he started taking all of his hurt and frustration out on me. It just hit a climax yesterday where he was flat out abusing me, and I deserve better than to be treated like that. I care about him a hell of a lot, but it's time that I started caring about myself too. Calling me fat was just one way he was trying to hurt me.