It's not rape if noone witnesses it.

:lol: Alright.

But you know me well enough to know I could never do that. I don't have it in me. But yeah I'll make a call tonight.

Or if it is preceded by pillaging and plundering.

If she is fat and gets no attention she may get a case on Stockholm Syndrome, and no muthafucka wants that.

That's what friends and facebook messaging is for :lol:

I have a horrible feeling when I call her she's gonna act like she's done nothing wrong.

When I call, if I can tell that she doesn't want to fix this and it is 100% dead, I'm gonna say some pretty harsh truths :lol:

Don't go into it pointing fingers or setting yourself up to burn bridges.

Go in sincerely, if it all goes south from there be the better person and just wish her well and walk away.

Some inspiration for you:
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Edited by notorganic: 21/12/2011 11:04:11 AM

Something that i just realised that annoys me..There's this hot girl that always gets on the same carriage as me every morning on the train to work. Sitting on the train in the morning is too awkward of a situation to attempt to pick-up so it would be nice if she got really fat or started getting on a different carriage so I wouldnt have to think about it. Anyone got any ideas on how to compose an awesome submission for mx's Here's Looking At You section?

You should write:

"Dear , I wish you were fat or on a different carriage so I wouldn't have to think about you. Coffee sometime?"

Yeah... I know that's the smart, mature thing to do. But a big part of me wants her to feel pain. Make her feel what she's made me feel.

I can be a vindictive sonofabitch :lol: But I probably wont have the balls to be a dick to her.

hmmmm...yes how and when to get back in the saddle......

Obviously she's going to be feeling some kind of pain, so no point making it worse.

Be blunt, but don't be brutal about it.

LOL....gold

Yeah. Tis the plan. I'm going to be honest with her, I'm not going to try and be an absolute dick but I will tell her some truths I think she needs to know.

Hoping she calls me first so I don't have to call her :lol: I'll give it until like 9pm.

Lol until you posted this I thought Kiwichick's post was referring the one above it about notorganic's wife

Hmmm that could actually get published, i'll submit and see how it goes, keep an eye out for it

i'm thinking everyone in here is under 14 years old????

Awks.

Oh god, Figjam V2.0.

Rhoff.

"Be blunt"

It's all over. We spoke last night.

Feeling pretty good about it now though. Closure and all that. And I'm convinced that she is not somebody I want to be with now I know the reason for why she did it.

The only thing that is upsetting is the fact that it's gone, naturally. But I don't want it back. It's just a shame to be alone. I'll live!


Thanks to all in here who helped out.

Saw it on Facebook bud. Hope all is well.

Glad to hear you did what was needed.

Any time :)

Don't mention it, my pleasure.




8-[

Sorry it couldn't work out.

Hopefully you'll find someone else soon enough :)

Working NYE and NYD with a babe, sorta makes up for it

This is something I have some expereince with. With our last daughter my wife had an emergency C section, so we only had to wait until her body settled down.

With our first we waited until 8 weeks and the doctor gave us the all clear.

But remember she feels like an over worked slave and 99% chance does not feel atractive at all. You need to make her feel special, give her time to herself so she can do the simple things that make her feel attractive.

It's also good to remember to help out from the momment you get home as and take as much work off of her as possible. Because even if she does feel like it physically, mentally she's very tired by the time you get bub down and probably just wants to get so much needed rest.


so to recap.

1. give her self time
2. assist her in all things from house work to child care (you are a man you don't need as much down time as a woman)
3. Make her feel special and attractive
4. (this is just an added extra) Romance. Chicks dig it.

Only if you get with her.

Or you can just get funky with the c-section \:d/