| ual 
                                 
                    
                   
                    
           
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			    jlm8695 wrote:ual wrote:jlm8695 wrote:Wait just to confirm, this is the same Benjo who threw a tantrum when criticised about his 'relationship' problems.
 This is fucking gold :lol: :lol:
 
 Kiwichick, don't let anyone tell you what to think. Trust your own decisions, if it goes bad, you can only learn from them. Thats the only advice anyone should be able to give.
 Alternatively she could take our advice and not rush into a shitty relationship because she feels social pressure to do so... Its her choice to make. You have no idea whether or not it will be shitty, she obviously believes that it might work. Why not let her try? You're missing the point here lad. She said herself that she feels pressure to be in a relationship, so we're urging her not to jump at the first womble to show an interest just for the sake of being in a relationship and feeling like she's satisfying some social expectation. If she makes the judgment that it's a top idea then who are we to say she can't do what she likes?                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    And you're missing my point. If she wants to try being in a relationship for whatever reason, let her try, and she can learn from whatever experience she takes out of it. For all we know it could turn out to be a positive choice :)                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    jlm8695 wrote:And you're missing my point. If she wants to try being in a relationship for whatever reason, let her try, and she can learn from whatever experience she takes out of it. For all we know it could turn out to be a positive choice :) She can do what she likes, but we can tell her that it doesn't look nor sound like a good idea to bend to social pressure for no real reason.                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    I saw we all go to Wellington and give an official 442 jury to decide if this bloke is worthy, completely defeating the prupose of KC deciding for herself.                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    The biggest problem is that everyone else seems to know what they want, except for me. I don't want to make a stupid decision, but I don't want to not make a decision at all either. I suppose it's really up to just me to think through this further, so cheers to everyone for the advice, and I'll be sure to let you know when you can all laugh and say "I told you so".                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote:The biggest problem is that everyone else seems to know what they want, except for me. I don't want to make a stupid decision, but I don't want to not make a decision at all either. I suppose it's really up to just me to think through this further, so cheers to everyone for the advice, and I'll be sure to let you know when you can all laugh and say "I told you so".  Like I said in the big post, just spend a bit of quiet time to yourself and have a good think about what you yourself want.                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    Let's just go beat this pleb up. Do a right propa good numba on the lad. Hang 'im up by his tight and curlies till he sings like Justin Beiber. -PB                
			    				
			                   
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    :lol: He's 6'0 and solid as. AJohn wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:The biggest problem is that everyone else seems to know what they want, except for me. I don't want to make a stupid decision, but I don't want to not make a decision at all either. I suppose it's really up to just me to think through this further, so cheers to everyone for the advice, and I'll be sure to let you know when you can all laugh and say "I told you so".  Like I said in the big post, just spend a bit of quiet time to yourself and have a good think about what you yourself want. I'll be going away this coming weekend, so I suppose that might give me a little bit of time to figure things out a bit more. Time isn't something that's on my side though.                
			    				
			                        
                           
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    paulbagzFC wrote:Let's just go beat this pleb up.
 Do a right propa good numba on the lad.
 
 Hang 'im up by his tight and curlies till he sings like Justin Beiber.
 
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote::lol: He's 6'0 and solid as. PB's from North Queensland, I'm sure hes built like a Cassowary.                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote::lol: He's 6'0 and solid as. don't worry guys - I got this                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    AJohn wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote::lol: He's 6'0 and solid as. PB's from North Queensland, I'm sure hes built like a Cassowary. m8 I arm wrestle crocs instead of going to the gym. Kweenslanda fo lyphe kunt. P.S. KC is the queen of ET. -PB                
			    				
			                    
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    Was in a bar drinking a couple of weeks back where this chick was playing an acoustic set. She was fair cute. She showed up to play in my bar tonight and we got on like a house on fire. Drinks with her tomorrow night.                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote::lol: He's 6'0 and solid as.
 
 Sorry but I actually laughed at that :lol:Edited by ual: 9/4/2013 11:09:26 PM                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote::lol: He's 6'0 and solid as.
 Does he even lift?                  
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    fitting the alpha stereotype even more tbh                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    For the love of god, I didn't need to see that at 9.30am. :lol:                
			     WOLLONGONG WOLVES FOR A-LEAGUE EXPANSION!
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    He's really into weightlifting, which I know makes him sound like a total douche, but he's not.                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    Does he check himself out in the mirror? -PB                
			    				
			                   
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    paulbagzFC wrote:Does he check himself out in the mirror?
 -PB
 I wouldn't have a clue :lol:                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote:He's really into weightlifting, which I know makes him sound like a total douche, but he's not.  How does that make him seem like a douche..                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    KiwiChick1 wrote:He's really into weightlifting, which I know makes him sound like a total douche, but he's not.  Being into weightlifting doesn't make him sound like a douche. Being a douche makes him sound like a douche.                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    notorganic wrote:KiwiChick1 wrote:He's really into weightlifting, which I know makes him sound like a total douche, but he's not.  Being into weightlifting doesn't make him sound like a douche. Being a douche makes him sound like a douche. :lol:                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    11.mvfc.11 wrote:I think the real thing that everyone is overlooking in all of this is how sad Benjo must feel.
 They never even got to have coffee :(
 
 Edited by 11.mvfc.11: 11/4/2013 01:25:50 PM
 Jokes passed mate.                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    AJohn wrote:11.mvfc.11 wrote:I think the real thing that everyone is overlooking in all of this is how sad Benjo must feel.
 They never even got to have coffee :(
 
 
 Jokes passed mate. I enjoyed it                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    11.mvfc.11 won't know it's over until afro tells him it's over.                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    I laughed.                
			    				
			    
                
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    notorganic wrote:11.mvfc.11 won't know it's over until afro tells him it's over.  Rofl. This thread just keeps on giving :lol: -PB                
			    				
			                    
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    Krackovich wrote:AJohn wrote:11.mvfc.11 wrote:I think the real thing that everyone is overlooking in all of this is how sad Benjo must feel.
 They never even got to have coffee :(
 
 
 Jokes passed mate. I enjoyed it I chuckled.                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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			    Krackovich wrote:AJohn wrote:11.mvfc.11 wrote:I think the real thing that everyone is overlooking in all of this is how sad Benjo must feel.
 They never even got to have coffee :(
 
 
 Jokes passed mate. I enjoyed it Gotta say I chuckled a bit too :lol:                
			    				
			                        
                            
                      
                            
                  
                           
                 
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