Neither, I'm just worried that he'll like any of them more than me, because I know there have been ~feelings~ there in the past. I don't want to be that "you can't hang out with your friends" person, but I don't want to sit here feeling crappy and inferior.

Can I just ask what putting ~ either side of a word represents?

If I were you KC, I would treat it like this - if there's reason to feel threatened/jealous, he's not the dude for you. The dude for you would be conscious that it's risky territory to get involved in things like that, and would put an end to it and/or address it upfront with you.

There's a club now? Why wasn't I told about this earlier. I'm not paying any fees =;

I'm super lucky that my GF and I aren't jealous people at all like that. We both have very close friends of the opposite gender, but it's not even an issue.

If you feel like it might be an issue and you find it hard to talk to him about it, maybe ask if you can hang out as a group?

We don't call them fees here, we call them 'membership opportunities'.

I'll PM you if that's cool, I don't really want to get into specifics for everyone to read.

Just add me on fb and inbox me there ;)

All g

Eh not if they're mates imo.

My fiance don't get jelly (thank fark) and I have more chick friends then guy friends.

-PB

Yes...a doctor's "membership opportunity" :lol:

But like I said - if there's reason to get jelly/threatened. Hopefully there's no reason to, between you and your chick friends, for your mrs to get threatened.

It's been a while since we saw some quality KC self-sabotage.

Cheers man, always happy to provide entertainment.

I'd say just be the person you want to be, do not worry about anyone else, and live your life around what makes you happy.

You can only control your behaviour and actions.

If you are being a good person/girlfriend, then you are living up to your own standards, which is all anyone can truly ask of themselves.

And ALWAYS tip your fedora.

KiwiChick has a fedora?

KC try hanging out with the friend and make her your friend

Alrighty, new boyfriend problems...

I'm not a PDA person at all, certainly in terms of making out when we go to parties and stuff like that... My mrs is the same, to a lesser extent. However... When we go to parties and she gets drunk, she will come sit on my lap and just start trying to make out. Which makes me awkward as fuck, because I hate it and so does everyone else. I always stop her, and then she gets shitty at me.

Old heads out there, other than breaking up with her (lol), have you found any good ways of dealing with publicly over affectionate girlfriends (particularly the drunk variety).

Don't sit down

Advice/12 :lol:

2 in the pink 1 in the stink.

-PB

Embrace the exhibitionist in her. Public sex is awesome. :lol: :lol:

Edited by Heineken: 30/8/2014 07:26:31 PM

When she's sober tell her that you don't like it and that if she does it when she's drunk that you will stand up and walk away.

Next time she does it when she's drunk, stand up and walk away.

A16's advice >

Awesome way to get single, especially if it's new ...

I've found chicks that are less inhibited than other girls in public are less inhibited than other girls in private too. Give her what she wants in public and reap the benefits later.

Dude, I don't know you but seriously, everyone makes sacrifices to please their partner in relationships. If this is your sacrifice, count yourself FKN lucky.

Edited by Aljay: 30/8/2014 10:54:44 PM

Edited by Aljay: 30/8/2014 10:56:08 PM

More likely to get an apology bj than getting single.

Just go for it man.

You're like 21 right? Have some fun. You'll look back with fondness.

Imagine the outcry this comment would generate if the genders were reversed :lol:

21? Shit man....... If she starts it when you're hanging round your mates and it's awkward, then the dance floor is your friend.

Don't be a faggot

He's not a bundle of twigs, Y'know.